OMG. I get people doing this to me a lot and it sucks! People who come up out of the blue just to frustrate you/make you feel bad. And it's not all harmless either, I have a teammate who we generally keep out of lgbt+ conversations, but whenever we say anything at all, including when we talked about love Simon, she has to bud in and say how wrong and gross she thinks it is. It's not all harmless, some of it can really make a blow, an impact bad enough to hurt without any physical contact.