Sorry mate but that excuse doesn't fly. Either the texts are divinely inspired an as such perfect, or they aren't & if they aren't then why bother following them as if they were. Its like when you meet christians who disregard the old testement, becuase they realize that it is incrediblly immoral, yet will still try and tell you that the bible is perfect & moral.
you've made a statement that you've read the bible & other holy texts & i quote " I have yet to find one which says, "We should hate and separate others from us because they are not holy/pure/do not follow the same path as me.""
To which i say
"And that prophet, or that dreamer of dreams, shall be put to death; because he hath spoken to turn you away from the LORD your God..." (Deuteronomy 13: 5)
"If thy brother, the son of thy mother, or thy son, or thy daughter, or the wife of thy bosom, or thy friend, which is as thine own soul, entice thee secretly, saying, Let us go and serve other gods, which thou hast not known, thou, nor thy fathers;" (Deuteronomy 13: 6)
"Thou shalt not consent unto him, nor hearken unto him; neither shall thine eye pity him, neither shalt thou spare, neither shalt thou conceal him: But thou shalt surely kill him; thine hand shall be first upon him to put him to death, and afterwards the hand of all the people." (Deuteronomy 13:8-9)
"Thou shalt surely smite the inhabitants of that city with the edge of the sword, destroying it utterly, and all that is therein, and the cattle thereof, with the edge of the sword." (Deuteronomy 13:15)
And thats just one book of the christian bible... The Quaran has at least 109 verses that call Muslims to war with nonbelievers, including references from the Hadith. So that puts a whole right now in your concept of religious texts not calling for hatred towards non believer... It not only calls for hatred, it calls for execution of non believers.
I do however apologies for making a liar of your stamp.