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You're just insecure
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Published: March 28, 2016
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ok this was requested by LeaderOfFeeless

but I agree

First of all, RPs are done with characters, either ones made by yourself or canon characters from games, shows, etc. so you aren't even rp-ing from your own viewpoint you're doing it from the viewpoint of those characters, 

second of all characters are fake, 100 percent fictional, so even if you were using a self insert or, just rp-ing as yourself with that character it's not cheating because half the party is non existent XD 

really the only way i would consider it cheating is if you were rp-ing, as yourself, with another person, who's rp-ing as himself (or herself or themselves) and doing sexual or romantic shit when you're already in a committed relationship AND your significant other is closed off to the idea of you looking at or being with anyone else (i'm saying this because some people are in polygamous/polyamorous and open ended relationships also so this is more or less for people -not- in those situations trying to judge them based on their own standards) 

but yeah, no, NSFW rps aren't cheating- if you feel like it is you're just insecure about your relationship or yourself. 
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MatthewDaAnimeFanboy's avatar
MatthewDaAnimeFanboy|Hobbyist General Artist
Correct! It's just fantasy.
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GhostiKid's avatar
GhostiKid|Hobbyist Digital Artist
I see nsfw rps as just porn
people used to consider playboys and porn and shit as cheating so like
its the exact same thing
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Orphically|Student Writer
I continually see these shitty-ass stamps, and I feel like I should explain.

I'm not stating I disagree or agree with this [in fact, I actually agree with this], but can we all just stop gate-keeping what we confine under normal societal standards as "cheating"? It doesn't apply to every single relationship because relationships, like people, don't exist in a vacuum, and are quite nuanced.

If you're someone who is uncomfortable with having partner(s) that RP sexually with others, and they agree with that, then it constitutes as cheating IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP. The same extends to those that don't, those in polyamorous/polygamous, and the literal nth number of types of relationships that exist.

Be you. If your partner(s) agree that something constitutes as cheating, then it is. Don't let shitty third-parties influence that decision.
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Pikachufan260|Hobbyist Digital Artist
I sexhually roleplay and o ma gawsh this generation is just...what...
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spaced-out-knight|Hobbyist General Artist
My friend used to have a boyfriend who said they were cheating for roleplaying shipping between the characters they roleplayed and the characters I roleplayed. Pretty sure we had even been shipping some of them before they started dating. He claimed my friend was cheating and that the characters were a coverup, as he would flirt with other people in and out of character. But somehow my friend was the cheater in his eyes.

I wanted to slap him. So hard.
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Lizzerina369|Hobbyist Photographer
That's so stupid. Roleplaying is fun! I love roleplaying, I love making up cool characters and coming up with different stories and plot twists. How the hell is it cheating? That's like saying that you're cheating because you're writing a story about a couple. 
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spaced-out-knight|Hobbyist General Artist
Right??
He especially had no room to talk when he was the one constantly flirting with everyone, both in and out of character.
Plus, she hated to roleplay shipping with him. His characters were abusive to hers all the time. One made him mad, was when her character broke up with one of his and ended up with one of mine later.
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NUMB-SKULLZ's avatar
Please shove this in my BF's face constantly 
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ToastyBrain|Hobbyist Digital Artist
I like nsfw roleplays, even though I'm with someone IRL, I will still do smut roleplays.

It's all fantasy, anyway.
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I know it isn't my place to speak, but I totally disagree. BugsBunnyFanNo1
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AborablePumpkinSmol|Hobbyist General Artist
I agree with the stamp.

Though I noticed comments about "getting off to it"

I don't think we should shame people that get off to NSFW rps with other people. Because to be honest fictional character's in nsfw settings gets me off.

And it has nothing to do with the person I'm rping with. I don't get aroused easily and the thought of real sex disgusts me. So it's hard for me to get aroused or feel satisfied when I know I can't ever have sex even if I'm horny because I don't want actually do the sex. Fictional characters are my way of getting out my sexual frustration. I get my sexual gratification from writing about sex scenes or rping sex scenes. But it's all about the characters and never about the person I rp with.

I don't think it's right to shame someone if they get off to fictional character's fucking. Everyone has their kinks. I mean I'd be more than excited if my gf wanted to do a NSFW rp. But sadly she only likes fluff and if I wanna get out my sexual frustration I can really only do that with rp or write it. And writing it isn't all that satisfying when you do it by yourself because you know what's going to happen.


So yeh the only way I get relieved of any sexual frustration is by looking at nsfw things, reading them like in fanfic or comic form, or rping.


My gf doesn't wanna do that with me because she prefers fluff rp. And I'm not gonna force her to help me out whenever I get horny.

My gf even agrees with me that rping romance or NSFW things with someone isn't cheating. Because it's the characters you're rping as that love each other.


She doesn't mind that I rp these rps to help me get off. To me it's the characters fucking that help me relieve my sexual arousal. Not who I rp with.

So please don't shame others who get off to NSFW rps. I love my gf very much and it's nonsensical to blame me or other people like me for getting off to an rp over two fictional character's when some people can't help but be aroused by it.
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xHappySinnerx|Hobbyist Digital Artist
true, i didn't really think of it like that but tbh even that doesn't necessarily bother me at all, i wasn't trying to shame anyone by it.

To me it doesn't bother me what people like, i have my kinks too so im not saying "ugh you rp nsfw to just get off on it grossss" at least it wasnt my intent, i just personally dont do nsfw things for that reason in particular. so sorry if i offended you ^^; 
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AborablePumpkinSmol|Hobbyist General Artist
Hahahah no it wasn't you it was more of the other people down there saying it was a bit 'iffy'


And nahhh it's okay I'm fine you didn't offend me. I'm not easily offended~ 
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One-Swood-Grommet|Hobbyist General Artist
I kinda agree in a way u w u I feel like everyone should set up boundries in relationship. Personally I wouldn't be comfortable for my love NSFW anything else with anyone else, but that's personal because I have extreme trust issues from past mental abuse in my first "real" relationship

Aka, if both partners are ok with it, go right ahead o v o
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xHappySinnerx|Hobbyist Digital Artist
same, it's really all a matter of opinion but it's not cheating if you guys agree to it,

personally as long as me or cas aren't "getting off" to a nsfw rp with other people i dont mind because it's not us, it's our characters
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One-Swood-Grommet|Hobbyist General Artist
I'm a little different but thats probably because of the type of relationship I prefer, since I enjoy being a little kitten, I feel like I should only do that stuff with my S/O also because I'm honestly the jealous type haha ;//v//;
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Lola-Rola's avatar
mmm tru tru

although I hate NSFW
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MASTER-K0HGA|Hobbyist Digital Artist
Exactly!
I agree with you all the way!!

I am TERRIBLE with NSFW rps though, I suck at 'em! XD
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mynx-e|Student Digital Artist
*screams* sO TRUE
like its with characters it isn't even real??
like same with mates
ok im going to go into a story sorry aha
whenever i do mate rps, sometimes i play as a dude other then a girl
im female and sometimes they ask "rp as your gender" and im like ???
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ButtPirateCas|Hobbyist Digital Artist
Not at all. Do people actually see it that way? I mean if your getting off on it it might be a little iffy but idk.
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xHappySinnerx|Hobbyist Digital Artist
idk tbh it wouldn't surprise me if someone out there was complaining about 'that's why rps suck' but i agree i mean, like i said im gonna say most of the time people who do nsfw role plays are doing it between their characters and not even from their point of view or to 'get excited' from it. 
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ButtPirateCas|Hobbyist Digital Artist
They are just a bunch of pussys
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XxchantellexX|Hobbyist General Artist
Truth.
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