In the past week I've opened up a little and told a few of my friends that I'm in the BDSM community and have been for the last 17 years or so with a fairly long break during my marriage. 4/5 was open and took it well and had the mind-set of, "oh, that explains xyz" While I'm not 100% ready to go 100% public, I figure at some point, I'll post various bondage ties and maybe how to's
I am a dominant and top, although rare occasions I am a bottom but never a submissive.
-- Sometimes I'll take a brat. Usually not for long term because I just don't have that patience.
I am a rigger. I tie up and restrain. (But I guess you could guess reading above.)
I am a sadist and a degrader.
I am a master in most relationships, not always limited bedroom/scene play.
I am an experimentalist.
I generally do not accepts pets but it does not mean I haven't or wont again.