I'm married with two kids. Just over 30 by the way and happy in every respect except for my, unfulfilled fantasies.
Oh writerdeb refers, not to my talents, which are minimal, but to the fact I love writing: Making up stories in my head. On paper.
Had to share this. Some time ago I read about book titled WHAT MEN THINK ABOUT BESIDE SEX. It has a title and many pages to the book. All of the pages are blank.