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A reminder to myself and those who need it:

Sometimes as human beings, we say, think or do things that don't always comply with how other people think.

Take it easy on yourself in those times that people reject you. You will be a lot happier in the long run.

Forgive people for turning their backs on you, even if it hurts. Because holding grudges is never a good thing.

But most importantly: Remember that people are not the same as you.

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Summer-Peaches Featured By Owner Aug 29, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Agreed ^^

I actually lost the person who was my best friend for all of my childhood and into my teenage years because our views on life grew too vastly different. I will always cherish our memories together, but you just can't let the memory of what someone used to be hold you back! :') 
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Vivyi Featured By Owner Aug 29, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Yaaaay x3

That's very true... I've realized there are a ton of ways to take this message. For me, it's more along the lines of forgiving various people in my life for hurting me, even if they don't realize they've done so. I won't go too much into detail about that, but it really hurts every time it happens.
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xXPetunia-I-Luv-UXx Featured By Owner Aug 26, 2016  Student Traditional Artist
YES TRUEEEE!!!! We often tend to hold it on people for a long time....... We really need to learn to let go!!:iconawwplz::iconaawplz::iconawwplz::iconspazhugplz::iconsomehugsplz::iconrubcheeksplz::iconawwplz::iconloveloveplz::iconcaekplz::iconkawaiicookieplz::iconlovesplatplz::iconlovesplatplz:
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Vivyi Featured By Owner Aug 26, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Very true! I wrote this not just for one person, but many. I've been betrayed by a lot of people in my life, just for being different from them. But although the standard way to go about this, is to fight back with snarky replies and hurtful words - I'd rather take a stance of peace, and really try to really dig into their minds, and why they feel this way, even if I don't feel that way myself. Not everyone deserve sympathy and respect, but most people deserve at least some form of acknowledgement. It doesn't mean becoming friends with people who attack you - rather, coming to an understanding of why they act the way they do, so that you can find ways to make  them understand you.
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xXPetunia-I-Luv-UXx Featured By Owner Aug 26, 2016  Student Traditional Artist
Awww that's so sweet of you! True!^^ That's the right way to act!Llama Emoji-74 (My kawaii cheeks) [V4] Bear Emoji-08 (Rolling Love) [V1] Llama Emoji-03 (Sparkles) [V1] Bunny Emoji-18 (Shower Love) [V1] Llama Emoji-39 (Eager) [V2] Llama Emoji-46 (This and That) Llama Emoji-60 (Snug or Hug) [V3] Llama Emoji-05 (Flower Sparkles) [V1] Kao Emoji-91 (In love) [V5] Love Adorable Girl Anime Emoji (Kawaii Jump) [V6] Bear Emoji-03 (Love) [V1] Free Choc Heart Icon Adorable Girl Anime Emoji (Huggy heart) [V6] Bunny Kitty Emoji-01 (Lovely) [V1] Panda Emoji-30 (Love) [V2] Panda Emoji-30 (Love) [V2] Gold Star Sticker Icon Froggy Emoji-59 (Being kawaii) [V3] Neapolitan Ice Cream bunny-to lovely Rose's Rose - PURPLE Croaking frog emoji v2 
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Vivyi Featured By Owner Aug 26, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Haha glad you think so :D
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xXPetunia-I-Luv-UXx Featured By Owner Aug 26, 2016  Student Traditional Artist
Likewise!^^ :iconsomehugsplz:
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Melissa-B-chan Featured By Owner Aug 26, 2016  Student General Artist
Thank you Vivi!! :3
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Vivyi Featured By Owner Edited Aug 26, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
You're very welcome <33 :glomp: I hope you found it insightful c:
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Melissa-B-chan Featured By Owner Aug 26, 2016  Student General Artist
It has become my way of thinking after I got through dark days..! :happybounce:
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Vivyi Featured By Owner Aug 26, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Yay I'm glad :D I've come to an understanding with this as well <3 It's a good way to think, I believe. :D
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Melissa-B-chan Featured By Owner Aug 27, 2016  Student General Artist
Yes, it's good to think more positive this way!
It gives less headache and problems!! :3
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Gamzguy17 Featured By Owner Aug 26, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
:thumbsup: :D
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Vivyi Featured By Owner Aug 26, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Glad you approve! :D
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Gamzguy17 Featured By Owner Aug 26, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Absolutely! That's my motif! :D
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Vivyi Featured By Owner Aug 26, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
That's good :nod:
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Gamzguy17 Featured By Owner Aug 26, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
:nod:
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