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I think it's important for me to clarify at least a little bit of what happened exactly, I've never felt scared like this in my whole life & that my life is in danger

I've had to disable my account for safety reasons, since a while ago me & my GF (Violetta on FA) was getting ridiculous amount of harassment & i've had to change passwords since they threatened to hack accounts of mine, & get some of my ocs by force? They even told us to go die & fuck ourselves, what kind of manners is that? & the fact that they are over 30+ in age, made me realize that they aren't acting their own age at all, they even made Vio Panic, & i was also threatened that i would be reported to get jailed, some of my friends suggested me that i report the harasser to the police, but then again i always thought that i would only consider this option at the very last because i didn't want to rush things & I'm not the type of person who would do this action, unless i get physically harmed

Sorry about all of this, things was getting out of my control, even if i tried to avoid it, it seemed that i was dragged by force to it even when i didn't want to, if things was kept in private, then this could've been handled better & things could've returned to normal again (which I've really tried to convince them about it, but still no hope) & lot of people i know there saw what happened anyway, but what's done is done, i don't have anything else to say, all i wanna say is just, i'm not regretting my decision which i really should've done earlier & from the very begging after realizing things was not gonna get more stable, I've always felt trapped inside & under control  for long but after this, i can say all the bad pressure & fear i was getting are finally out, so thanks to the wonderful friends & people who have supported me through this hard time, i really appreciate your standings for me & Violetta

Thank you for awakening me before it's too late, it made me glad knowing people are happy for us both, i will do my best to achieve our goals together 
& i surely hope i can make new friends, i've known lot of friends for well long enough (you know who you are) but i don't mind getting to know more, i don't believe that i have so many friends (which is a problem i guess since i'm too shy & awkward sometimes) , but i still always look after those people who i care for



Culprit: lil-maj

Proofs:
www.dropbox.com/s/ndp4r1owkure…
www.dropbox.com/s/plgu665zja2d…

There is more, but i think this should explain the whole situation

Been for bloody 4 years relationship, but i should've ended it earlier since it was getting toxic & unstable, & i started getting uncomfortable
I may be nice, but i don't appreciate this behavior about someone telling me to die & fuck myself

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I'm going to repost the contest journal, you don't have to comment again if you have commented on it before, but it's up to you if you want to do that again, it's feels like promoting your art to new comers anyway so it shouldn't be problem
If me & violetta Don't pick or get enough entries, then top places will get prize increase, but if we got all entries filled, then prizes stays as they are


What about the username Change? well it's temporary, but i know i have to wait 6 months to change to something better, it was necessary for me to change it during the attacks to avoid further problems, the name i currently use is from a new Main oc i want to make in the future, i feel it's better that i start new to forget those bad past moments

Thank you for understanding, & sorry if this was long to read, hoping things will get back to normal again 
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xKarka Featured By Owner Oct 11, 2017  Student Digital Artist
I'm so sorry to hear that, you both don't deserve such treatment :/ Hope you guys are alright and everything will be settled soon!
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VibrantSnow Featured By Owner Oct 11, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Thank you ;w;
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ShanetheFreestyler Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2017  Hobbyist
Wow... I'd have never expected him like... ever. Was he like the the whole time and I was stupid. or something else?
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xgenwolf99 Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2017
Nobody deserves to go through that sort of hell. Thankfully you were able to sort the situation out before things got even worse. Hope you're okay now and you'll have a great rest of the year. 
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VibrantSnow Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Yes I’m certainly feeling better, thanks :)
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gakusangi Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2017
If it concerns some of your OC's, make sure to get some copyright paperwork filed and then keep a physical copy of it with your real names onhand if anyone tries to steal your stuff in the future.
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VibrantSnow Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Maybe, thanks for the suggestion 
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bleeding-rose92 Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2017
Terribly sorry to hear that. Couldn't believe the language that was used, shocking to say the least.  Hope you two are well and will be better in the future. ^^
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VibrantSnow Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Yes i was speechless, i was told they have anger issues, but that's not an excuse? they've gone overboard, i have little anger problem IRL, but i will never step to that level of theirs & tell someone to kill themselves, especially in public 
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bleeding-rose92 Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2017
No, it certainly isn't. I have anger issues as well, but would never do that to someone, even if I despise the person. Heck, I was raised with the, "always shake hands with your enemy, even if you must fight them the moment after" view point. 

Like one of the other comments said, I don't know either of you closely, but that incident has made me look at things with a grain of salt.  I mean, you didn't use that language towards them.  :/

Friendship grows over time, and by mutual respect, not loads of money. 

I'm glad you're doing better and hopefully will do better.  ^^
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Krxiruz Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2017
im a idiot what is FA?
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VibrantSnow Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Oh lol it's ok

FA = Furaffinty, a furry specialized website 
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Krxiruz Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2017
ahhh, okay 
LoL hahaha
no wonder,anyways good luck with life
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VibrantSnow Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Thanks :)
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Lustysex Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2017
So sorry to hear from you that
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VibrantSnow Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2017  Student Digital Artist
No worries, thanks 
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zufe Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I'm so sorry this have all happened to you. I have seen all the things that happened on FA on comments / shouts and it didn't seem fun at all.
I am happy you're doing better with Vio and I hope for the best for your guys future <3
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VibrantSnow Featured By Owner Edited Oct 10, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Thank you, it's unfortunate that people only in their side just because of the money & the fame they has >:
if i wanted to harm them, i would've gone nuts & argued in their posts in public & did what they did to me, or even mention their friends names in front of everyone, but what they did was so childish

it's so sad how some people don't try to look at the side from the smaller audience person, and only defend the person with more popularity & more friends
I don't have anything against them, but the best thing to do at that time was to just settled & end this before it's too late, so i sent a note to say that i cannot continue a relationship like this, I wish more knew the truth, but what matters is that i got loyal people who are also amazing friends for so long that i can trust & rely on, & tbh, i've never thought i would become friends with amazing artists too ;_; 

Having so many friends isn't important for me, i prefer a friendship that grows naturally 
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zufe Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yeah I get you
From my side of view, I don't really have any connection to that person, (I am not close to you either but)
but from what I saw it just looked like pure harassment I was wondering what was going on??

I'm happy you'll hopefully be more safe now, it's not fair of them to act this way against you.
I haven't seen you act like that to them, and I do nnot wish to take sides but you are defenetaly the victim of this if anything.

I agree, forced (or bought relationships) aren't as real, and only those that are naturally there are better. 
I've distanced myself a bit since I haven't wanted to get ''attached'' to them anyhow (or rather their cash I guess lol)
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VibrantSnow Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2017  Student Digital Artist
I'm not saying having so much money is bad... but it made me feel that people who owns so much fund are generalized as bad people (which is not always true) & i don't want to be that person, who abuses their money as an excuse to defend themselves & be an asshole to everyone, i don't want to be judgmental towards those type of people, but i have mixed feelings right now, so i don't know how to feel about this u_u
but as i said, it's not always the case, in fact i know few friends/people who has always been so nice to everyone

It's alright, i'm too shy & awkward sometimes, so i can't make friends easily ;__; (most of the times i made friends through commissions, which i guess i don't mind, even if it's hard)
but since i got out of my trap, i feel like i can make more slowly

Yes i noticed they try to friend everyone, it's great to be nice, but it felt that he a bit overdoing it?
lot of artists/friends i know told me, they are not comfortable with them, & they way they act and i'm glad i'm not the only one who felt this way, i've always felt it but i couldn't say a word because i was always threatened about the taking oc by force, even long time ago i was mistreated & was called bad names lot, like Trash & unworthy

He even Dragged Vio as a Victim, and kept calling her a liar, and even when i told them she is trying to recover with her treatments, he didn't respect & kept insulting her & bug the hell of her through telegram, i didn't mention this, but she got like 10+ messages at once, and she was so nervous/scared to open them & just deleted them right away since he was bullying her & she didn't want her recovery to be ruined

I don't have problem if he want friends... he seems to treat everyone so nice, except me, i was always their slave & it was the reason i kept distance from having my own friends
I hope you & everyone & stay safe ;; 
people like those are a real monster, it was a night mare 
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zufe Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yeah I see ;;-;;
it really is horrible,
I sure hope that all other artists he also tries to get too close to (as some of my friends like uketoy for example)
Are not treated badly, it'd upset me a lot

<3
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VibrantSnow Featured By Owner Edited Oct 10, 2017  Student Digital Artist
I certainly hope they are alright, even if I personally don’t know them, I think I tried to like talk a little with them & being friend but I’m too shy to Say anything else to them,  I don’t think I’m doing good since maj is in the way, but I still hope they don’t have problem with him as well as everyone else... like I did u_u
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zufe Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
So far they seem  okay!
I'll keep them safe if I have to
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VibrantSnow Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2017  Student Digital Artist
I wish you the best of luck ;v;
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Tomthesmol Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
So sorry to hear that...
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VibrantSnow Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Thank you, it's all good now, it's been a week since this happened
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Tomthesmol Featured By Owner Oct 10, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I hope you don't get any more threats, damn I wonder who the assholes are who threatened you...
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