I'm sorry to hear this is happening Thall, I'm not too sure what's going on but from what I've heard it must be pretty stressful for you guys. I hope this clears up for you soon and the rules start being respected again. <3 These cuties... dang I'd been offered them, too. Too cute. ;v;'
well my problem with this here is not only that my trust got used the bad way but other peoples as well. i got lied to and so did others. while i hate being lied to, and i do not forgive that easily, the thing that is worse to me is if other people from the community get dragged into it. so the consequences to this might be critical. i do not wish to be lied to, and i do not want other people in the community to be lied to all i want is that we are all fair and honest towards each other. if somebody is unwilling to , then i will draw harsh consequences- i do not want somebody like this in the community.
Oh dear, I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I can completely understand why this is something that would have critical consequences-- it's a big thing to betray trust, and it's not something easily repairable, especially in large numbers as this seems to be. That's completely understandable, Thall, and you gotta do what you gotta do. The community has always been very kind and trustworthy, and I know you'll keep it that way.
I hope this is rather simple to work out for you, I hate to see you upset or stressed. If you need anything, please let me know!
i am far to soft, as i try to instantly trust everybody here, as it is wrong to think from the start that everybody lies. but this, sadly, bears danger - i will draw consequences from what happened, not for others, but for this one person.
There's nothing wrong with giving trust to someone as soon as you meet them, and there's nothing wrong with being soft. Sometimes it's good to trust people from the get-go, but these days it's been hard. Yes, you're right when you say it's wrong to assume people lie from the start, but is there truly a way to figure out if someone's lying?
(And I mean on the internet rather than in real life)
I read up on the comments to see what happened and I'm sorry about what you're going through. If you want to keep talking about it, I'm on Skype (or notes here on dA. Whichever is more convenient for you).
it came to my attention that she unrightfully tried selling them this has been reportet to me by two people so far. the staff and i are discussion further actions, but untill a decission has been made i decided to freeze both nebnoms.