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I keep seeing all this heavy and emotional vent art and all I want to do is help, but everytime I go to comment I see those 6 awful words. "Comments are disabled on this item". Like what's the point of posting vent if you won't let people help you. Shutting yourself out from the world isn't going to make you better, it's only going to make things worse. And I understand if you're trying to block out those ass holes that call you an attention whore or call you names because you're depressed. That makes scence, but you shouldn't close off any help at all. We care about you and we want to help you get through your rough time. As hopeless as everything may seem, there's still light at the end of the tunnel, you just have to move on to reach it. Let us help. Don't hide away in the shadows and let your demons tear you apart. You're a wonderful person who deserves to live.

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GoreCreature Featured By Owner Aug 28, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
I can see why you're frustrated...
But people will only be open to change or help when they want to.
Sometimes my vent art is posted on a bad day.
But if it becomes frequent I will be more open about it.
Though I see where you're coming from.
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TestToBePossessed14 Featured By Owner Aug 28, 2017  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Thank you
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Hawkmask101 Featured By Owner Aug 27, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
It all depends on my mood whether or not i disable comments
If i disable comments its not because i dont want help, its because i know someones going to offer me the same advice i already know to take (and am already doing)
I know how to get myself to stop feeling shitty, i know shit isnt my fault, i know my friends dont actually hate me, i know this
So i dont need someone commenting below with those things because it just makes my feelings feel invalid
Sometimes i want to draw vent art just so i can write my thoughts in the description and move on, i dont need to check three hours later when im feeling better and see my friends all saying "hey whats going on remember that we love you and that feeling like this is wrong"
that just makes me feel worse
ive been pressured all my life to constantly be happy! be upbeat! why are you crying? suck it up or i'll give you something to cry about
so i like to just post shit and move on
i dont like to talk about it even if it's encouraging
plus a lot of my friends immediately assume that all my vent art is directed towards my ex and i hate that because whenever people say "is this about sky" you're not helping you're making me think of even worse shit
all in all there's a reason i disable comments and it's not bc i dont want/believe in help it's because i just dont like talking about it
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TestToBePossessed14 Featured By Owner Aug 27, 2017  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Ok
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Hawkmask101 Featured By Owner Aug 27, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
I get why it can be frustrating, i was just kinda explaining my reasons personally on why i do it!! Hope i didnt offend you or annoy you!!
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TestToBePossessed14 Featured By Owner Aug 27, 2017  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
No its fine
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