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small warning/psa

Journal Entry: Tue Jul 26, 2016, 6:49 AM
removing toxic people from your life is NEVER a bad thing,
and it's actually something i'd recommend for everyone.
i've NEVER had to block anyone until this point, but it's for
the best and i already feel 20 times better c': to the
people who still watch me, ilu guys!!

sort of PSA:

just know that i never, EVER purposely do things just to
piss you off, upset you, or fuck you over. it's usually an
honest MISTAKE or something i was unaware would cause
any issues in the first place. and if you have an issue with
me, i would PREFER for you to bring the issue to me DIRECTLY
instead of bitching out my friends, or talking shit about me behind
my back (i almost always find out anyway). confront the
fucking issue instead of making other people miserable, guys.
they don't deserve it, and that just shows me that you are a
total coward and asshole for taking your frustration out on
people who shouldn't have to deal with problems that you
have WITH ME. so seriously, if you have something to say, 
say it to me. don't take it out on my friends. this is the
only warning i will EVER give, if i hear about ANYONE
talking shit or bitching to my friends and making THEM
feel bad, i will cause way more hell than you're prepared
for.

I AM ONLY HUMAN. if i've done something to upset you,
just TELL ME. like, it's not that hard. just confront me.
thank you to anyone that HAS confronted me about issues,
i can't tell you how much i've appreciated it, even if it upset
me lol.

small tip:

be very, very careful about who you do business with and
with whom you associate, because your friends are hardly
ever actually your friends.
real friends are people who have YOUR best interest at heart,
who are there for you regardless of what mood you're in or if
you're depressed. friends don't only talk to you when they need
something. friends don't guilt trip you. friends aren't just around
for the good times, they're around when you don't think you're
worth being around. they lift you up, they don't constantly tear
you down.


if someone you think is your friend doesn't fit that criteria, please
do yourself a favor and remove them from your life.


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Virren Featured By Owner Jul 26, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I'm awaiting your reply in notes, please, get back ~ :)
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Decembrrr Featured By Owner Jul 26, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Wise words wise words ^^^more people need to read these journals 
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zoom Featured By Owner Jul 26, 2016
i feel this so hard that i don't even have friends anymore because of it :') r.i.p
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sweets Featured By Owner Jul 26, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Rip I'm sorry you have to deal with this too:c
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40mg Featured By Owner Jul 26, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Sweets for prez 2k16
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Ruechilla Featured By Owner Jul 26, 2016  Student Filmographer
Good for you!  Don't take anyone's shit!
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V1ckyLee Featured By Owner Jul 26, 2016
Yes <333 To the friends part. My friends don't seem to get that c":
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sweets Featured By Owner Jul 26, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
A lot of people don't, and they settle for "friends" who treat them badly/aren't around when they need it, and that's not how friendship is supposed to work. IRL I only have 3 real friends. People I could count on to put down their lives to help me if I ever really needed it. People who love me regardless of the mistakes I make.

Online, it's harder to determine who your real friends are. Especially on deviantart. But if they only talk to you when they need something, don't care about your personal life, etc, they're not a friend. They're an acquaintance. My dad taught me that a long time ago. uvu
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V1ckyLee Featured By Owner Jul 26, 2016
My friends make excuse in real life. Only one real internet friend so far xD
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