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There is a small vent below. Warning just in case people don't want to see my slightly-emotional drivel.
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I think the thing that bothers me most right now is being ignored, esp over an issue I consider important. Arguing? that's fine.  At least they are somewhat listening to me.  Discussions? Even better.  We're exchanging ideas, understanding each other.  And if it turns out that i'm not on the prevailing side, that's not too bad.  At least then i can understand why, and it's still resolved.  But being/feeling ignored? 

That's the worst. It's like my opinions, my ideas, and really everything on my side of the issue is just being invalidated bc it's not important enough to anyone to acknowledge it. Tell me yes, tell me no, just tell me something so I know you actually heard me. Don't ignore me and invalidate my issue. Please, i just... I don't want my voice to be silent.

And y'know, maybe that's not what's going on, but it feels like it and it makes me want to cry when I think about it.

I'm not an eloquent venter and it's usually hard for me to put my thoughts into words (it took me a long time just to write this), but this is a big fear of mine (and many others I'm sure) and it's been getting worse, so I figured it'd be healthy to let some of this out so I don't lose my mind.
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nene7980Hobbyist General Artist
I am taking it g like a arguement came and that person didnt listen to you? Being ignored in general specially in those discussions is really..meh... I hate being ignored to specially when they dont even care
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Madison2003Student Writer
don't worry, Tam, we'll always acknowledge you. I hope things get better for you <:]
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studiofrukeStudent Digital Artist
I hope so tooo
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Madison2003Student Writer
<3
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speedbump07Student Writer
Aye, being ignored is worse then being told your wrong, as atleast they have to take notice and care enough to argue :< Hope that this feeling goes away for you soon, and that ya feel better soon as well!
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studiofrukeStudent Digital Artist
Yanno, me too. I'd like to feel better soon too. Dunno how else to respond, but thanks for the comment and all. It was nice. (:>
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speedbump07Student Writer
Ya, I'm not the best at comforting people >3> generally I just wish people well and hope that works :p
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