Honestly? This stamp is really true. No matter how much you cry and bitch and moan, other people's relationships are not hurting you. This applies to homophobes as well. If you're obsessing over other people's relationships and lifestyles and bullying them over it, that's a ridiculous, pathetic, and immature way to be. It's like being upset that someone across the room from you is eating vanilla ice cream when you hate vanilla ice cream. That person eating vanilla ice cream isn't hurting you man! I don't care what anyone does in the bedroom as long as it's safe, legal, and consensual. And just because you are a survivor of abuse, that does not give you the right to bully people over having liking something you dont approve of. I am a CSA survivor. It is not a free pass to bully. And that applies to me as well. I may be atheist but I can't bully people over their religious beliefs-that would make me an asshole. Obviously I don't support necrophilia or p*dophilia or things that actually do hurt people. But if two grown men wanna get married great for them! If you're into BDSM good for you! mark inappropriate art as mature content and don't act inappropriately around minors (including me lol) and I'm happy. I don't support minors in kink communities. DDLG is an adult community, it's taking place between two grown ass consenting adults and it doesn't even have to be a romantic relationship. It can be platonic. You may not like a fetish, but don't compare it to a serious real life issue. Its petty and it's offensive to real CSA survivors (Including me). Pet play is again a role play between two consenting adults. NOT ANIMALS. Petplay, CG/L, BDSM, none of that stuff is promoting abuse or romanticizing abuse. A role play between consenting adults is not on the same level as child molestation. I was sexually abused as a child and I couldn't care less what adults do with adults in the bedroom. People have kinks, people like different things than you, get over it. Educate yourself and cut the crap. It does not """fetishize""" children , childhood , child abuse, rape , or abusive relationships. I understand that some people are weirded out or uncomfortable towards the community (because or past abuse or not), and they are allowed to feel this way 100%. But what I'm not okay with is people trying to hurt others that do enjoy the lifestyle or people with the kink. It's totally ok if some things make you uncomfortable or you find them gross or whatever, but then just avoid them to whatever extent you can and go on with your life. You only have control of your life, you have no right to tell others what to do with theirs.If you have a problem with someone else's life choice that don't effect you, get the fuck off the internet and go outside for some fresh air. You don't get to break up other people's relationships just because you're bothered by them. I'm a survivor of child r*pe and you don't see me following people around, calling them pedophiles, insulting them and telling them they need to stop being in a relationship due to my trauma do you? Get over yourself and mind your own business. Go see a therapist if other people's relationships and lives affect you THAT much.