Guuuys I really love and appreciate you guys, but
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if I deny an art trade because I don't want more work on my list, it's not rude
4%
if I don't reply immediately because I simply am too tired to reply the same minute, or because I'm at school, or sleeping, it's not rude
9%
if I say you're not a friend because I feel like I don't know you well enough, it's not rude
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if I deny your request because I don't do requests, it's not rude
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if I stand up for myself in a conversation because I feel like you're going too far, it's not rude
5%
in short, I am a friendly person, but I cannot let people walk over me. I love to communicate, but you don't own me.
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Published: November 19, 2014
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ArielTheAngelHobbyist General Artist
I agree and I totally understand, I would never think you're rude, you're awesome <3. I think that people don't realize that we do, in fact, have a life besides the internet (except for me XD ) and can't reply to every comment or request or do every trade art or whatever and that sometimes we just have to put our foot down and say no. I'm glad that you aren't afriad to stand up for yourself (unlike me, I am a doormat x3)
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SpitfiresOnIceHobbyist Digital Artist
Aww, thanks c:
I think people tend to forget that, yes xP
I used to be a doormat too. Sometimes I still am. But eh... Can't always be :'D
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ArielTheAngelHobbyist General Artist
Your welcome and true, true C:
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Fluffeh-KatStudent General Artist
I agree with you and I completely understand <33 And I hope people are able to understand man cause you're awesome and I hope they understaaaandddddd <3
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SpitfiresOnIceHobbyist Digital Artist
I'm glad to hear c:
And well... MOST people understand.

Thanks <3
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Fluffeh-KatStudent General Artist
Yes but it's those who do not understand who truly wreck it.


You're welcome<3
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SpitfiresOnIceHobbyist Digital Artist
Exactly.
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U DIDNT DRAE MAH OSHEE UR A MEANIE

Nah I'm kiding, I don't think you're rude or anything like that.

Its a good thing too establish boundaries/limits/wants/needs early in any environment.  :)
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SpitfiresOnIceHobbyist Digital Artist
OH NOES

Ahh, good to know c:

And indeed!
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TAKEaSECONDandSMILEHobbyist General Artist
You go, girl! Don't let people walk over you!
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SpitfiresOnIceHobbyist Digital Artist
I won't c:
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TAKEaSECONDandSMILEHobbyist General Artist
c:
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rensaurxHobbyist Digital Artist
exactly
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SpitfiresOnIceHobbyist Digital Artist
Yus.
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DelsonquilavaStudent Traditional Artist
It's kind of Ironic because some of your fans "like me" you said you love us but yet.... We're not even friend with you?
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SpitfiresOnIceHobbyist Digital Artist
Appreciating someone's existence =/////= friendship
I do not know you personally. Friendship is a process of giving and taking, and trust. I can't have that with someone I know personally.
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HawkiefaceHobbyist Writer
*holds you in a headlock* bitch whatcha talkin' bout, you belong to me :stare:

No okay I'm kidding
But seriously I think it's good that you stand up for yourself with things like this; it lets people know what you're tolerable of, and what you're not c: I hope I've not been someone who's done one of the things to annoy you like that :ohnoes:
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SpitfiresOnIceHobbyist Digital Artist
:XD:

No, you haven't. Don't worry ;w;
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mittens150Student General Artist
All of the above are perfectly acceptable things to say. Has someone been giving you a hard time about some of them?
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SpitfiresOnIceHobbyist Digital Artist
Just a few people recently.
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SpitfiresOnIceHobbyist Digital Artist
No need to be ;w;
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Love ya bro. No homo intended.
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SpitfiresOnIceHobbyist Digital Artist
:dummy:
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