I can't say yes or no, I know kids with aspbugers can be hard to deal with. they rub off from others.
so when an aspie is disrespectful, it's because they feel disrespected, when they are defiant they just have something to say, but since aspie's think way for from someone who doesn't
it's hard to know what they mean. but when u think from an aspie's view you'd be very surprised.
I know cuz I have aspbugers, along with adhd, so i'm hard to understand.