Do you like for certain people to be able to reach you anytime? (For example that they can call you up during the night when something's wrong, etc.)
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Yes, I want to be there for people I care about, whenever they feel bad.
87%
Absolutely not, I need my sleep :stare: (And other moments of privacy)
13%
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Published: March 3, 2015
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KasodiHobbyist Digital Artist
One of my best friends used to be depressed and suicidal, so I promised them I'd keep my phone on vibrate overnight and told them to call me if they were having an especially bad time. It worked x3 and although I don't really need to do that anymore, it just kinda became habit

Anyone else can get knotted though :stare: xD

I'll stop stalking your polls now >.>
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SpitfiresOnIceHobbyist Digital Artist
Yea, I'd only tolerate a few people to do that I guess xD
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EpicLPSWolfHobbyist Digital Artist
Of course! If someone needs someone to talk to, then I'll always be there. :)
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SpitfiresOnIceHobbyist Digital Artist
That's nice :)
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HawkiefaceHobbyist Writer
Of course, but I expect the same in return :stare:
little bitches
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SpitfiresOnIceHobbyist Digital Artist
Fair enough!
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zooIogyHobbyist Digital Artist
Nope. I am not the one people should come to if they have problems. I don't care.
Also I would not want to be woken up.
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SpitfiresOnIceHobbyist Digital Artist
I would not like being woken up, either xD
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Jade-HawkfrostHobbyist General Artist
Yay, I would want them to do the same for me. Sometimes I have really bad hostile days and then I go to bed crying... Sometimes it just helps to talk with people
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SpitfiresOnIceHobbyist Digital Artist
Sometimes it does, yes!
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breeozoaHobbyist Digital Artist
I would totally be up for it,AS LONG AS THE OTHER PERSON WOULD DO THE SAME FOR ME. Because I know an incredibly low number of people who would behave in that way towards me. Maybe just one or two...or maybe even none (excluding my partner). I tend to get disappointed by how people call themselves your friends,despite they don't really behave as such.
Like,idk...maybe it's me who has higher expectations,I don't even know.
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SpitfiresOnIceHobbyist Digital Artist
I know that feeling, it's hard to find people who really care (and it's mutual)...
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breeozoaHobbyist Digital Artist
Yeah,exactly! I have a very good friend here in Canada,and she keeps getting shocked by how much care I show for her,and she told me countless times that "she has never had friends who cared that much for her" but I mean,for me it's like,normal? Another friend I met here told me the same exact thing last semester. To me that's how a friend should be...I don't think I'm overdoing it. But eh,I always get disappointed by how other people treat me in return! That brings me down a lot sometimes...
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SpitfiresOnIceHobbyist Digital Artist
Mhm, can imagine... Feels empty not to get anything in return.
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breeozoaHobbyist Digital Artist
Yeah,totally! I feel like nobody around me is really truly a friend,and that I'm just giving away too much. Oh well :/ 
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SpitfiresOnIceHobbyist Digital Artist
I have that feeling, often... fffff.
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breeozoaHobbyist Digital Artist
So sorry about that. As you can see,you're not alone in this though :c
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SpitfiresOnIceHobbyist Digital Artist
Yea... That's good to know at least!
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linsaangsHobbyist General Artist
lmao they can TRY but once i'm asleep i'm not getting up
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SpitfiresOnIceHobbyist Digital Artist
Same... :XD:
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linsaangsHobbyist General Artist
Oops
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LightMistOceanHobbyist Digital Artist
I like being able to help people, but I mute my phone at night. But there is a limit, I mean I have a life of my own and I can't always help people and I have to care for myself. I love making people happy but sometimes and I often put others first but I'm not willing to do everything to please people, I just can't. I'll always be there for my friends though, but I need some time for myself as well
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SpitfiresOnIceHobbyist Digital Artist
Yes, same. I need time for my own, too :noes:
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Aravil1Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yeah, I do but only for a limited number of people. And I usually mute my phone at night
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