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Do you like for certain people to be able to reach you anytime? (For example that they can call you up during the night when something's wrong, etc.) 

87%
111 deviants said Yes, I want to be there for people I care about, whenever they feel bad.
13%
17 deviants said Absolutely not, I need my sleep :stare: (And other moments of privacy)

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Kasodi Featured By Owner Jul 22, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
One of my best friends used to be depressed and suicidal, so I promised them I'd keep my phone on vibrate overnight and told them to call me if they were having an especially bad time. It worked x3 and although I don't really need to do that anymore, it just kinda became habit

Anyone else can get knotted though :stare: xD

I'll stop stalking your polls now >.>
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Jul 22, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yea, I'd only tolerate a few people to do that I guess xD
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EpicLPSWolf Featured By Owner Jul 8, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Of course! If someone needs someone to talk to, then I'll always be there. :)
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Jul 8, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
That's nice :)
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Hawkieface Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Writer
Of course, but I expect the same in return :stare:
little bitches
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Mar 4, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Fair enough!
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zooIogy Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Nope. I am not the one people should come to if they have problems. I don't care.
Also I would not want to be woken up.
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Mar 4, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I would not like being woken up, either xD
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Jade-Hawkfrost Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Yay, I would want them to do the same for me. Sometimes I have really bad hostile days and then I go to bed crying... Sometimes it just helps to talk with people
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Mar 4, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Sometimes it does, yes!
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breeozoa Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I would totally be up for it,AS LONG AS THE OTHER PERSON WOULD DO THE SAME FOR ME. Because I know an incredibly low number of people who would behave in that way towards me. Maybe just one or two...or maybe even none (excluding my partner). I tend to get disappointed by how people call themselves your friends,despite they don't really behave as such.
Like,idk...maybe it's me who has higher expectations,I don't even know.
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I know that feeling, it's hard to find people who really care (and it's mutual)...
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breeozoa Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yeah,exactly! I have a very good friend here in Canada,and she keeps getting shocked by how much care I show for her,and she told me countless times that "she has never had friends who cared that much for her" but I mean,for me it's like,normal? Another friend I met here told me the same exact thing last semester. To me that's how a friend should be...I don't think I'm overdoing it. But eh,I always get disappointed by how other people treat me in return! That brings me down a lot sometimes...
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Mhm, can imagine... Feels empty not to get anything in return.
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breeozoa Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yeah,totally! I feel like nobody around me is really truly a friend,and that I'm just giving away too much. Oh well :/ 
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I have that feeling, often... fffff.
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breeozoa Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
So sorry about that. As you can see,you're not alone in this though :c
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Mar 4, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yea... That's good to know at least!
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linsaangs Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
lmao they can TRY but once i'm asleep i'm not getting up
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Same... :XD:
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linsaangs Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Oops
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LightMistOcean Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I like being able to help people, but I mute my phone at night. But there is a limit, I mean I have a life of my own and I can't always help people and I have to care for myself. I love making people happy but sometimes and I often put others first but I'm not willing to do everything to please people, I just can't. I'll always be there for my friends though, but I need some time for myself as well
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yes, same. I need time for my own, too :noes:
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Aravil1 Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yeah, I do but only for a limited number of people. And I usually mute my phone at night
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I do, too.
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Shiruisa Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Uhh they can write to me anytime if something happens, but... NOT NIGHT PLEASE.
1. I need sleep and 2. I wouldn't be able to cheer them up anyways because I would be sleepy Stare 
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I have the same problem!
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Liilies Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Artist
I definitely want to be there for people I care about. But I have no social life, sooooo yeah XD
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I only have an online social life, pfff.
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Liilies Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Artist
I have hardly any in either XD
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SowoD Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
I chose yes. I want to be able to help people out, especially those that are close to me.
However, it gets on my nerves a bit when people ask for help/complain and don't want to listen to what others have to say. I know some one like this who just wants to do things their way but then complains that they aren't getting the results they want. I still try to help, but it doesn't get anywhere :b
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yes, that is annoying indeed :noes:
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AnArtisticArtist Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Student General Artist
Yes, especially the ones I'm closest to. 
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
For me it's just my girlfriend. :P
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AnArtisticArtist Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Student General Artist
I see. n.n 
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TheDogzLife Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I do but at the same time I'm complete and utter shit at helping people who are upset lmao you probably couldn't pay someone to go to me
I guess that'd explain why people aren't too keen on hearing me out when I have problems either. Suffer in silence and watch stephenplays
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Same here, I am bad at it these days, it's sad :noes:
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TiffWolffArts Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Professional Digital Artist
my goal in life is to make sure everyone I care about is happy. 
if having to stay up and take my own time to talk to someone to make them feel better, then I'll do it in a heartbeat. 
i care more about others than myself. 
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
That's good, but you should care for yourself as well.

I used to want to please others too, but I cannot keep it up. I need to be able to retreat sometimes, to recover. The only person I am permanently available to is my girlfriend, but I can't do the same for others, especially with university being hard on me.
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TiffWolffArts Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Professional Digital Artist
ahh I see. 

I do care for myself when I need it, I'm not someone to just 'waste my life away' if that makes sense. 
I just wanna make sure that the others around me are happy. as long as they're happy, I'm happy (:

and sorry about university being hard on you. school is annoying and makes me want to pull my hair out sometimes. >_> im only a freshman in high school, and people are saying it will only get harder. Nah it's hard enough I don't want it more complicated ;_;
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I see!

Yea, things get hard, I don't like it :saddummy:
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TiffWolffArts Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Professional Digital Artist
:c
im failing almost all my classes and it's stressing me out
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I did awful at my exams, and it stressed me out too, yes. :C
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TiffWolffArts Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Professional Digital Artist
:c

tbh I feel that half the crap I learn in school is useless
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I felt the same, but a lot of it is returning at university for me fffff
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Raccoon-Whisperer Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015
I don't know what to choose. I usually like to help out or something when people I care needs me, but sometimes its just too much of that and I just want to disconnect for some time, to be with my self and my thoughts and just after some time to get back on track. So I guess I won't pick any of those answers, since none of them are wrong or right in my case.
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Fair enough, it's the same way for me :XD:
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