not usually, because it's normally in the context of...when...i complain i have to do something difficult. it's like... "no..shh..no no...just let me complain"
THOUGH! another situation - i was in a race i didn't sign up for when i was in wheelchair track and field. my chair wasn't made for racing, so it was really hard to push. i was passed up by a lot of people, including a girl using a walker. |: ... i was toward the end, everyone else finished...all of a sudden, i hear over the intercom/speaker, "Come on Sarah! You can do it! Come on Sarah!" ... which got the crowd going with.."Go Sarah!"'s and stuff like that. I felt so embarrassed and put on the spot [i felt like everyone was staring at me!], as soon as it was over i left the track and cried. ; n ;
the only time it's helped was when i showed my buddy a song i wrote, and she said it was really good, and that she believes i can make it as a musician. ; u ;
Actually, it usually makes it worse for me, because then what if I don't do well??? ;w; They just told me that I would, that they believed in me, but then I let them down! So I would prefer if they just said, "Do your best" :'D
Well, not the words themselves, but sometimes the simple fact I know people are supporting me. However, sometimes it just adds pressure and makes things even harder. I'll usually try but it won't end up as planned xD
Honestly, not really. Usually it's not so much words that inspire me, but more examples of other people that have done well in my same situation?? Like, say I'm feeling discouraged about my art. If i see an artist i really look up to's old art and see that they were at my same situation at one point, I feel better and more motivated. It's a little hard to explain.
Sometimes it makes it even worse, in my opinion. I'm already an overstressed person, you see. If someone makes me the impression they are expecting me to do something right, I get a load of stress more than I already have! So sometimes, I make things worse, with the thought 'now I have to do good, because that person expects that' But other than that, sometimes it depends on the situation.. So yeah, I can't define it really