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In relationships, what happens to you more often: having been broken up with, or breaking up yourself? 

48%
80 deviants said I haven't had a relationship yet, or I am in my first one and it's still ongoing.
14%
23 deviants said All of my past relationships ended because the other person broke up with me.
10%
16 deviants said Most of my past relationships ended because I broke up with them.
8%
14 deviants said Most of my past relationships ended because the other person broke up with me.
8%
13 deviants said For my past relationships it's about equal.
7%
12 deviants said All of my past relationships ended because I broke up with them.
5%
9 deviants said Other?

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:iconaskthegreyskull:
AskTheGreySkull Featured By Owner Feb 26, 2016  Hobbyist
Last girlfriend disappeared forever.
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Feb 26, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Aw, I'm sorry to hear :noes:
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:iconaskthegreyskull:
AskTheGreySkull Featured By Owner Feb 26, 2016  Hobbyist
It was over year ago. Week before I became 18.
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HikaruTheMutt Featured By Owner Jan 14, 2015  Student General Artist
3/4 of the relationships have ended with the other party breaking up with me. u3u I am definitely not a heart breaker. x'D The one time I did break up with someone was when I was dating a guy and I realized that I never really had feelings for him in the first place (which lead me to realize I like girls), and plus he was an overprotective jerk who was always trying to pressure me into things I was uncomfortable with (such as kissing, drinking alcohol, sex, etc.), so I quickly ended that. u3u
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Jan 15, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Oh wow, good you broke it off then! He sounds awful D:
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:iconhikaruthemutt:
HikaruTheMutt Featured By Owner Jan 15, 2015  Student General Artist
Indeed he was. D:
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:iconlatviachick:
LatviaChick Featured By Owner Jan 14, 2015  Hobbyist Photographer
 I'm in a relationship now...but it's not the best to be honest. 
We can't go around school like other couples because of people not liking interracial couples 
but most of my past ones, I broke it off pfft one of your quiet watchers here
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:iconspitfiresonice:
SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Jan 14, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Aww, that's awful :c
Hi there :XD:
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:iconhawkieface:
Hawkieface Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist Writer
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:iconspitfiresonice:
SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Jan 14, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I thought you had had relationships?
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:iconhawkieface:
Hawkieface Featured By Owner Jan 14, 2015  Hobbyist Writer
I think you mean I've had "relationships".
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:iconspitfiresonice:
SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Jan 14, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Uhh yea xD Well you talked about them before so I was like huh
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:iconhawkieface:
Hawkieface Featured By Owner Jan 14, 2015  Hobbyist Writer
Eh I don't really consider them as proper relationships, so yeah
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:iconspitfiresonice:
SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Jan 14, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Oh fff :XD:
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IndominusSaur Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
So far, my only relationship ended with my girlfriend breaking up with me. We dated for over 4 years and never once got to meet up in person......
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:iconspitfiresonice:
SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Aw man, I didn't know you two broke up, that's awful...
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:iconindominussaur:
IndominusSaur Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
It was back in May. She messaged me someday and told me if it was okay if her and I were just friends. Despite it ending on a good note, I still felt rather sad. 
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Mhm, that sounds very sad indeed...
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:iconsheepmaker:
SheepMaker Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I tried so hard to think of some witty joke for this but couldent. :iconcryforeverplz:
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:iconspitfiresonice:
SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
-pats-
It's okay Sheep.
It happens.
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:iconsheepmaker:
SheepMaker Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
sOBS, thank you Bienu. ;n;
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:iconspitfiresonice:
SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
It's fine, Sheep.
It's fine. :nod:
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xXMittyKittyXx Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015
I don't think I was ever technically in a real relationship. We just kinda both admitted we had a crush on each other and nothing else happened. Which is fine because i'm still young anyways so I don't need to get into relationships. :P
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:iconspitfiresonice:
SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I see ^^
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:iconemeraldarcbreon:
Emeraldarcbreon Featured By Owner Edited Jan 13, 2015  Student Digital Artist
I only had one relationship in my entire life, lasted 2 years too which is amazing for a first, but I was the one that broke it off due to extreme lack of communication. (It was a online LD relationship, so it was hard enough already) However me and my ex GF are still best friends, so not all is lost. :3
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Whoa, that's long! :) But yea, lack of communication is a problem D:
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:iconice-phoenvi:
Ice-Phoenvi Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
I had only one relationships and she broke up. but we are still friends
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:iconspitfiresonice:
SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
That's good then :)
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Ice-Phoenvi Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Yeah, I think the same way
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:iconhobbitten:
Hobbitten Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Well, I've only dated 1 person, and he broke up with me.
But I have a feeling, that I would often be the one who gets broken up with. :XD:
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I had that feeling too :XD: Seems not though.
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:iconhobbitten:
Hobbitten Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
What do you mean? o:
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:iconspitfiresonice:
SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
That I always thought I would never break up myself, but that that isn't true :P
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:iconhobbitten:
Hobbitten Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Ah, I see. :'D
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:iconufodoggo:
ufodoggo Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
The person cheated on me ;3;
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:iconspitfiresonice:
SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Whoa, really? That's awful D:
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:iconufodoggo:
ufodoggo Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yeah but I'm over it cx
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:iconspitfiresonice:
SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
That's good :)
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:iconamethystyl:
Amethystyl Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015
For me, about half and half, I guess. But I tend to be -mildly to severely- heartbroken even if I'm the one who ends the relationship, which is actually rather stupid. :dummy: and I've been rejected a heck of a lot, but that's not really exactly a relationship so. xD Relationships and love are hard and strange. D: yet I still seek it.... orz
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:iconspitfiresonice:
SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yea, gotta love love :XD: It's complicated, but so nice too hnnng
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:iconamethystyl:
Amethystyl Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015
So stupid, yet so beautiful :XD: hhh..
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:iconspitfiresonice:
SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yes :la:
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MerlynsMidnight Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Ive had some relationship's, but they always end the same way...
All the lads I have had a relationship with have broken up with me for a thinner and prettier girl than me, and It makes me feel unwanted...and ugly:cries:
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
That's just awful... xc
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:iconmerlynsmidnight:
MerlynsMidnight Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Yeah...but it's life I guess :(
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:iconspitfiresonice:
SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Jan 14, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Sadly...
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:iconreddzartz:
ReddZArtz Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Student General Artist
I'd say it's about half and half with me.
Or wait, no, I think I picked the wrong option OTL
I've only broken up with two people, everybody else broke up with me ;o; (soo that would be abouuttt 3 people maybe? yeah I think so)
also, I've been rejected, like, 5 times lmao
And about 3 crushes that I never did anything about lmao
And I rejected someone else but he was pretty sleazy so I don't feel bad about that at all lmao
Oh and I currently have a crush on 4 people atm, 3 of them online, and 1 irl orz

urgh relationships are hardddd ;o;
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Love is hard indeed :XD:
And so are crushes, ffff.
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ReddZArtz Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Student General Artist
Ugh the irl dude, I just realized I liked him and we hung out yesterday and I wanted to either kiss/cuddle him but I wasn't sure how he'd react so I didn't really do anything ;o;
and the online people, I just- argh, 2 of them are taken and I would be in a relationship with the other one but his dad is against it because of interracial issues and the whole ferguson thing going on in the us, so it would be kinda dangerous ;w;
and I wanna be a single pringle for a while but this irl dude, I just- ugh I dunno
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Jan 13, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I have that often, probably good I never did anything since most girls I crushed on were straight :XD:
And that's awful...
Sometimes you just want to be single, but then love shoves itself in your face.
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