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Guuuys I really love and appreciate you guys, but 

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55 deviants said in short, I am a friendly person, but I cannot let people walk over me. I love to communicate, but you don't own me.
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7 deviants said if I don't reply immediately because I simply am too tired to reply the same minute, or because I'm at school, or sleeping, it's not rude
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7 deviants said if I say you're not a friend because I feel like I don't know you well enough, it's not rude
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4 deviants said if I stand up for myself in a conversation because I feel like you're going too far, it's not rude
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3 deviants said if I deny an art trade because I don't want more work on my list, it's not rude
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1 deviant said if I deny your request because I don't do requests, it's not rude

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:iconarieltheangel:
ArielTheAngel Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
I agree and I totally understand, I would never think you're rude, you're awesome <3. I think that people don't realize that we do, in fact, have a life besides the internet (except for me XD ) and can't reply to every comment or request or do every trade art or whatever and that sometimes we just have to put our foot down and say no. I'm glad that you aren't afriad to stand up for yourself (unlike me, I am a doormat x3)
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Nov 22, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Aww, thanks c:
I think people tend to forget that, yes xP
I used to be a doormat too. Sometimes I still am. But eh... Can't always be :'D
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ArielTheAngel Featured By Owner Nov 22, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Your welcome and true, true C:
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Fluffeh-Kat Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Student General Artist
I agree with you and I completely understand <33 And I hope people are able to understand man cause you're awesome and I hope they understaaaandddddd <3
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I'm glad to hear c:
And well... MOST people understand.

Thanks <3
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Fluffeh-Kat Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2014  Student General Artist
Yes but it's those who do not understand who truly wreck it.


You're welcome<3
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Nov 22, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Exactly.
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BigAl29 Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014
U DIDNT DRAE MAH OSHEE UR A MEANIE

Nah I'm kiding, I don't think you're rude or anything like that.

Its a good thing too establish boundaries/limits/wants/needs early in any environment.  :)
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
OH NOES

Ahh, good to know c:

And indeed!
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TAKEaSECONDandSMILE Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
You go, girl! Don't let people walk over you!
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I won't c:
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TAKEaSECONDandSMILE Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
c:
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rensaurx Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
exactly
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yus.
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Delsonquilava Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Student Traditional Artist
It's kind of Ironic because some of your fans "like me" you said you love us but yet.... We're not even friend with you?
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Appreciating someone's existence =/////= friendship
I do not know you personally. Friendship is a process of giving and taking, and trust. I can't have that with someone I know personally.
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Hawkieface Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist Writer
*holds you in a headlock* bitch whatcha talkin' bout, you belong to me :stare:

No okay I'm kidding
But seriously I think it's good that you stand up for yourself with things like this; it lets people know what you're tolerable of, and what you're not c: I hope I've not been someone who's done one of the things to annoy you like that :ohnoes:
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:XD:

No, you haven't. Don't worry ;w;
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mittens150 Featured By Owner Nov 19, 2014  Student General Artist
All of the above are perfectly acceptable things to say. Has someone been giving you a hard time about some of them?
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Just a few people recently.
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:iconprsownglaceon:
PRsOwnGlaceon Featured By Owner Nov 19, 2014
Im sotry man
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:iconspitfiresonice:
SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
No need to be ;w;
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:iconprsownglaceon:
PRsOwnGlaceon Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2014
Love ya bro. No homo intended.
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Nov 21, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:dummy:
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OkamiWhitewings Featured By Owner Nov 19, 2014  Professional General Artist
I feel you so much, but are there a lot of people who are like that to you now? ò-ò *sharpens claws*
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Not tons, just a few ones who ruin it for the rest.
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:iconstuffyhaven:
Stuffyhaven Featured By Owner Nov 19, 2014   Digital Artist
what is wrong with people today?!?1 it's like they don't realize us artists are real humans ;n;
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Seems not. It's easy to pretend there isn't a real human being behind the screen I guess.
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:iconstuffyhaven:
Stuffyhaven Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014   Digital Artist
i can't believe that people can be so insensitive ;-; (<- i like that face way too much xD)
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yea :'D
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Chedtim Featured By Owner Nov 19, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
"in short, I am a friendly person, but I cannot let people walk over me. I love to communicate, but you don't own me."
so much respect for you
preach, Bienie
PREACH
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Fffff ;w;
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:iconjuju712:
juju712 Featured By Owner Nov 19, 2014
The fact that you post that is worrying, what kind of people do usually speak to you?
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:iconspitfiresonice:
SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Mostly, perfectly decent people. But the few exceptions can ruin a lot.
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:iconskyworthy:
skyworthy Featured By Owner Nov 19, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Well said
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:iconspitfiresonice:
SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Thanks :'D
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:iconskyworthy:
skyworthy Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
fair winds my friend
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:iconpyro-claw:
Pyro-Claw Featured By Owner Nov 19, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
This is completely perfect!~ I think it's stupid that you get called rude for that, it's so pointless! >_< But yeah, I totally understand you :)
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Ah, glad you do ;w;
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Pyro-Claw Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:huggle:
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:iconrasaliina:
Rasaliina Featured By Owner Nov 19, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
This is perfect and I relate so much! If this was a deviation/journal I would have insta-faved it :heart:
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
N'aww ;w;
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TheGhoulAvenue Featured By Owner Nov 19, 2014  Student Digital Artist
I actually think its rude when strangers ask for requests especially when the artist has commissions open. Or asking for free points (I had that before) :stare:
In my friends I dont like when people in chat (skype or steam) keep spamming me just because I didnt reply within a minute. Have some patience man
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Someone asked me for a request once because "they didn't have points for a commission." Not even an hour later they commissioned my girlfriend.
It even says on my page that I don't do them, but apparently that's irrelevant... xD
Same here, in conversations I need to breathe or I shut down.
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:icontheghoulavenue:
TheGhoulAvenue Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Student Digital Artist
Lol what the fuck though
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
As well as the person who just told me that it's hypocrite to say I love my watchers but I don't see them all as friends
lol
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:icontheghoulavenue:
TheGhoulAvenue Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Student Digital Artist
Its kind of hard to stay in contact with almost 3000 'friends' |D
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Exactly...
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skytd Featured By Owner Nov 19, 2014  Professional General Artist
UGGGGH so many options, i don't know what to vote >:O

wow.so rude. much wrong.uuh. rude. wow

hriyaihariyarhiarjaishar


<3 UvU
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yes, very xD
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