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Hey, I'm sorry if I come off as rude lately. 

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16 deviants said So sorry if I hurt your feelings through that. It's probably not you.
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5 deviants said I have the feeling that my replies to some comments have become snappier as I have become less tolerant of people misbehaving towards me.
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3 deviants said I don't know, I noticed that people tend to have a more "whoa-don't-bite-my-face-off" attitude towards me. Perhaps they're right.
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2 deviants said But I also feel like I'm less tolerant towards people who don't read certain things I say and then do something I warned them not to do. However, these things just happen way more often than in the past, which is why they annoy me more.
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2 deviants said There are also some people who lied at me and don't dare to face me when I confront them, so I'm just a lot more cynical. Especially since some people just don't know what "friendship" is supposed to be like.
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2 deviants said I'm just revising some views on friendship, but I can tell you that a few people have lost their chance at friendship with me through the past weeks, and I've generally been rather disappointed lately.
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No deviants said I also have become more outspoken online and if I read comments on someone else's journal/poll and someone comments something rude or ignorant, then I will point it out way more often than I used to do - and I'm aware it probably is annoying fffffff
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No deviants said But I recently had an incident with an ex-friend of mine that made me put my foot down more, because some things he did were just not okay at all, and I guess it has made me more intolerant towards ignorant or antisocial behaviour.

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Narnoleon Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2014
WHEN IN DOUBT;
BLAME THE CRAMPS :'D
sorry 
it's just that I notice stuff like that about myself when it's almost that time of the month xD
so I always blame the cramps >:UU xDD
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
For me it's almost over, so... perhaps :XD:
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Narnoleon Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2014
justblameitonthecraaaamps xD
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Blamethecrampsforever
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Narnoleon Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2014
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Omfg yes :XD:
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Narnoleon Featured By Owner Oct 2, 2014
it needs to become A THINGGG
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Oct 2, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
YESSSSSSS
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CelestialRainicorn Featured By Owner Sep 30, 2014
Didn't notice at all.
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Edited Oct 1, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Okay :'D
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Goomuin Featured By Owner Sep 30, 2014  Professional Digital Artist
Well, gotta say this, your Skype taglines have been very cryptically passive-aggressive lately, no idea what you're talking about. Unless it's mostly about that ex-friend, I dunno.

Other than that, I don't have a feeling that you want to bite my face off :dummy:
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Most of them are referring to him, yes xD Or to my brother fffffff

No, not really :XD:
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Goomuin Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2014  Professional Digital Artist
Maybe you're talking about illegal immigrants right now. If you don't know the behind the scenes stuff it's really hard to figure out what you're talking about :XD:

I'll bite your face off :eyes:
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yea, I know xD
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Hawkieface Featured By Owner Edited Sep 30, 2014  Hobbyist Writer
I'm so sorry, I feel like I do this often ;w;
But I really hope you're okay! There's nothing wrong with expressing your opinion and letting people know you're not going to tolerate their behaviour. I don't recall having a snappy reply from you at all so all I care about is your happiness not to sound creepy whoops
But yeah, I apologise again and I hope you're okay!!
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Huh, you didn't do anything at all :XD: Don't worry buddy :huggle:
I'm glad you think so!
And really, no need to apologize c:
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Chedtim Featured By Owner Edited Sep 30, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I haven't noticed anything to that degree from you/felt under attack at all, but from what you say it sounds like a good thing. Letting people know what your expectations are makes things easier.
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Well, I'm glad you feel that way :'D
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OkamiWhitewings Featured By Owner Sep 30, 2014  Professional General Artist
I know how you feel right now =_=
The worst is when people piss you off (sometimes on purpose or knowing it's a touching argument) and then act like you are the mean one who's always rude and snappy to them. Like, excuse me?
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Mhm, or when people make a mistake then act like the victim. I don't get it ffffffff
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OkamiWhitewings Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2014  Professional General Artist
Exactly ò-ò "oh, I stepped on your toes. I DEMAND APOLOGIES" :iconyouwutplz:
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Indeed xD
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IvypoolForever Featured By Owner Sep 30, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
<33 Be as snappy as you want to be! I'm sure if you think you're being snappy, the person must really deserve it ; v ;
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Hmm, maybe not always, it depends :'D
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TheElvenJedi Featured By Owner Sep 30, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
It's fine :) I don't feel like you've ever been rude to me at all lately but if I have said or done something to anger or upset you I do apologise, I'm not sure if I have, just making sure/in case xD, cause I really didn't mean to xP but I totally understand what you're saying and I bet it gets frustrating. I know I would get frustrated too in that kinda situation :L
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
You didn't do anything c:
And yea :'D
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TheElvenJedi Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
oh good x'D
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wrightwings Featured By Owner Sep 30, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Some people! > : L

Well, I'm the kind of person who tries to listen to people's problems and give helpful advice.

If you ever need someone to vent to or just someone to listen, just send me a note! I'm almost always online.
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Thanks a lot ^^
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LunaClare Featured By Owner Sep 30, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
It's probably just bad luck. Don't let it get to you. A lot of people get self-esteem or self-confidence issues based off of a few bad experiences that are, most of the time, based off of circumstances, not your actual character traits.

So don't worry about it Spits. I'm sure I've played a part in it and I apologize for the mishap. It gets to me too a lot.
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Ahh, perhaps you're right ;w; Thanks c:
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Purrlstar Featured By Owner Sep 30, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I haven't been privy to any sort of unkindness from you,  but honestly I'm sure you've been fine. 

This is the internet, its impossible to tell someone's tone of voice when you read their text, miss-communications happen -often- and its one of the unfortunate sides of any online community. 

and even if you think you've been rude or spiteful or any of the things that you said, its okay to not feel bad for them?? Sometimes its completely alright to go out of your way to call out on other people's rudeness, in fact I wish more people would! 

there's no need to feel sorry for your actions, unless you're SURE you've hurt someone's feelings via miss-communication. 

i'm sure you'll be fine ;w; <3
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yea, I guess that's part of the problem, I think I came off as rude at some point by just using sentences ending in periods with no emoticons whatsoever. That probably played a role in it.

I'm trying to clear up misconceptions now and apologizing to people, so we'll see how things go :'D
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TheGhoulAvenue Featured By Owner Sep 30, 2014  Student Digital Artist
I feel you. I had alot of bad experience with people, and some bad experiences with friends have taught me to not trust anyone with secrets so I either have things I tell everyone, some things I just tell all my friends, and other things I tell no one because I've met nobody who could keep anything to themselves :U
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Ah yes, I know that xD It sure is annoying!
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skytd Featured By Owner Sep 30, 2014  Professional General Artist
is it me?

did i pissed you off? :c

i say crap sometimes! sorry!!
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Sep 30, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
No, it wasn't you Sky, you did nothing (:
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skytd Featured By Owner Sep 30, 2014  Professional General Artist
*got my eye on you*
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
:'D
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AngelCnderDream14 Featured By Owner Sep 30, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Its okay, to be honest you haven't been rude or anyway to me. But if you wish to talk, I'll be glad to listen and support. I do care about my friends dearly.
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Sep 30, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Ffff, I'm glad :'D
Thanks ^^
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AngelCnderDream14 Featured By Owner Sep 30, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
XD, your welcome! Anytime ^ ^
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Aravil1 Featured By Owner Sep 30, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
It is okay. If you need any help or want to talk, just let me know
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SpitfiresOnIce Featured By Owner Sep 30, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Ah, thanks.
I'm also sorry for not replying on Skype so often. I have been thinking, next time you want to talk there, do you think you could ask me on dA about it beforehand? I think that way it would be less overwhelming for me, and if it wasn't convenient I could tell you another time, and then I wouldn't ignore you that often.
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Aravil1 Featured By Owner Sep 30, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Okay, no problem
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