nope, I don't want to have any because I don't like them, If someone want to have them, go ahead I never said this is bad but don't force me to this my boyfriend don't like them too so we decided we don't have children in future... cats are better BUT if in future we change our minds we want to adopt child, I am fucking afraid to give born (and my body is too weak for this) and I don't see myself in pregnant... 9 months without beer, vine and vodka, nope!!... yup, I'm selfish but this is my life and I do with it what I want
idk my brain is too big a genetic fuck-up for me to successfully reproduce and bring even borderline sane kids to this world xD no but really, these past few years the main reason why I'd never want kids has been that I simply couldn't watch them inheriting all my mental difficulties D: Also kids are a lot of hard work and I don't know if I would have energy to be a good parent anyway, so.
Kids seem like hard work, having three nieces is enough. And just the thought of carrying a HUMAN in me is just freaky, and for NINE MONTHS and all the rest of that story... I'd rather adopt cats and dogs and call them my kids
yeah but i'll probably adopt like i used to be like "IM GONNA HAVE MANY KIDS OF MY OWN!!!!!!!!!!!" but now im like ://///// considering i identify differently and also ive figured out im slightly tokophobic and ggggggggggg
I'm torn ;-; I want to know what is like to feel a life growing inside of me and generally being a mother, but at the same time I hate the idea of being more or less sick for 9 months, giving birth and the first 2 years of the baby (I wanna sleep ;-. My bf says he doesn't want children, probably because he has lots of little cousins and I guess he's sick of those annoying little devils, and I kinda agree with that :'3 Anyway, I know I want to adopt a kid for sure ;^;