sleepyhypno

The powers he can turn off and on at will are as follows:

Hypnotic Energy manipulation and orb creation - Basically he takes his own conscious energy and uses it to hypnotized / manipulate people he touches, he can also form it into glowing orbs that he can hold, throw, make float, or make light up his eyes. anyone that looks at that orb is drawn into it and hypnotized. Resistance will vary based on species but all living things are susceptible. The more hypnotic a creature (IE a succubus, or a vampire) the more susceptible they are to it.

Pheromones' - he can exhale pheromones', but he can control when he does so. like a dragon breathing fire, it doesn't ALWAYS exhale fire. The pheromones, like his hypnotic powers effect different people differently, some just get horny, some get giggly and dazed but the general effect is that it lowers their resistance and makes them very comfortable around him.

Wings - He has dragon / demon wings that can extend out of his back. they are big. like 20 foot across, to support his weight when he flies. He can leave them out or shrink them down into his back to hide them.

Powers that are always on :

Tail - he has a demon like arrow head tail that is about 5 to 6 feet long, it is under his control but also has a mind of it's own if he isn't paying attention it will move and act on instinct. It is not a separate entity just more a reflection of his subconscious and a tool for jokes like having the tail point at him like it's looking at him and shake it's head back and forth disapprovingly.

Super Strength - He's very strong, but has limits. the example I tend to use is he can lift a Chevy Silverado above his head, but that that is the maximum he could do, if you put a piece of paper in the bed it would be just an ounce too heavy for him to lift.

Durability - His body is strong enough to not break while he lifts a pick up truck, he's not bullet proof or anything like that just his body is sturdy enough to support his super strength.

Healing - think wolverine style healing just slightly slower and it actually hurts as he's healing.

Energy Draining - 'Intimate contact' (kept vague on purpose because it can vary from a deep kiss to something more sexual) causes his body to drain the conscious energy out of whomever he is being intimate with. He can't control it but he can hold it off a little bit, but only a few seconds. The energy drain makes the energy in the other person light up and glow and then moves into him leaving the glow to fade from them and once it's gone they fall unconscious for 8 to 20 hours depending on overall health. (a Normal person would sleep like 20 hours, a person in really good shape like a soldier would wake up in about 8).

Memory erasure - anyone who he has drained will more or less completely forget the entire encounter with him, and believe it was nothing more then a vivid erotic dream, but like in most dreams they won't really remember his face, if they know him they might realize it's him and just think they had and erotic dream about someone they know, but a stranger would never be able to pick him out in a line up kind of thing.

I try to keep the powers consistent as I write, I've never been a fan of the theory of "the car is as fast as the plot requires" kind of thing. I like to try and keep it consistent so anyone that follows along will know roughly what Xander can do and what he can take, and can call me on it when I cheat (although usually if I do I call it out myself.) Alternately, other characters like Midnight, who is a female succubus, is actually stronger then Xander, because unlike Xander she actually works out, so like a human that works out, she is stronger, faster, and more durable then Xander who is a lazy bum like me =c)

Thanks for asking =c) I hope that helped!