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I've Had Enough

Journal Entry: Tue Aug 8, 2017, 11:10 PM


I am truely sorry for this journal guys, but I need to say my piece as the person currently stalking me has taken this too far now.

I am so done with this bullshit it isn't even funny.
So here is the thing, I really wanted to ignore this and just leave this alone but I have no choice now to call this behavior out.
:iconnaga07: has now made the issue public and it is now time for me to say my piece about the situation since they are neglecting all the facts.
So naga had been my friend for a little bit, more like an acquaintance since we didn't do much or talk much. And this whole ordeal happened around the time my Fiance suffered from a major disease that crippled him, sending him to the hospital, then almost killing him. I was distraught and completely gone from any medias, I was trying to cope. Naga had been pressing me and continuing to get too clingy and I became uncomfortable. So I just told her that I was done and wanted nothing to do with her. But as she noted and commented I eventually just blocked her. (I don't remember all the details because this was so long ago but all I know was that I was fed up. I wanted to be left alone so I could tend to my fiance and spend as much time with him as I could as I thought I was going to loose him for good.)
Then the shenanigans started. Constantly I saw them on my profile and eventually I started to screen cap them:
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Eventually I got sick of it and started showing Abaddon each time I saw it. He went ahead then and noted them warning them to leave me be, as this was now considered to be stalking/harassment. Around this time the first conversation they had I noticed they had been using my artwork as an icon on their FB page without my permission! But what really bothered me about this situation though was in this first conversation naga07 had threatened Abaddon and I!
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This is only one of the 20+ screenshots Abaddon took, and in all of them she wouldn't stop talking about how much she liked my artwork.
This person is obsessed with me and even though I blocked them still won't stop. I am extremely tired of this and want them just to leave me in peace and stop being obsessed. If this doesn't quit I will be calling the authorities tomorrow. I will not reveal where they do live but I do know their information and can file a report. As of right now I am worried for my safety and I just want this person to please stop. 
If they did respect me, and truly liked and appreciated my work and what I do, they would stop, and just leave me be.
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Update 9/15/2017
Guess who came back? I guess she really doesn't understand the meaning of "stay away or I will call the police".
Not cool at all.

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:iconkyuunazaraki:
KyuunaZaraki Featured By Owner Sep 16, 2017
Even though I am not quite a friend I am truly sorry you are dealing with this nutball on top of the stress of your fiancee' being ill/hurt. I hope things level out and the freakshow trying to mess with you this way sods off. 
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SafireCreations Featured By Owner Sep 16, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Thank you. We appreciate it.
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KyuunaZaraki Featured By Owner Dec 27, 2017
glad to hear. Hope things have leveled off somewhat at least? 
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SafireCreations Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Kind of, but the asshole still stalks my profile, I keep seeing her icon show up on my visitors tab. I know she can't see my profile, but my fear is what if she is logging out, and checking my profile offline.
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KyuunaZaraki Featured By Owner Jan 3, 2018
...is there a way to block anyone not a watcher from seeing your stuff? 
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SafireCreations Featured By Owner Jan 3, 2018  Student Digital Artist
I did block her, but I can't stop her from losing out and seeing my stuff that way.
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KyuunaZaraki Featured By Owner Jan 8, 2018
erf...hope you get things dealt with...I'd offer ideas if I could but dunno if getting DA staff to like IP block her for Stalker behaviour would do it...
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SafireCreations Featured By Owner Jan 10, 2018  Student Digital Artist
Idk, that would be helpful, but idk if they would even take the case seriously or not. Plus let alone get in contact with one.
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GoblinsDomain Featured By Owner Edited Sep 15, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Good god this person sounds horrifying. I wish you the best of luck in getting rid of them.
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SafireCreations Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Yeah, I have already told her to stay away from me, and my fiancé has warned her multiple times to stay away from me.
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GoblinsDomain Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
And she still isn't able to get the message?
Wft?
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SafireCreations Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Exactly. My fiancé evened warned her that what she is doing is harassment and I have the right to report her to the police. I guess she still doesn't get it.
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GoblinsDomain Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
She probably thinks that your bluffing for some reason even though you told her you would call the cops on her and now she has to pay the price for her bad decisions.
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SafireCreations Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2017  Student Digital Artist
I am going to talk to my fiancé tomorrow and we will call them tomorrow and report her actions and her threat.
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GoblinsDomain Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Good. And I wish you the best of luck in getting rid of her
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SafireCreations Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Thank you :)
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LordScorpion12 Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2017
Swiggity swooty… coming for the booty… (I have crippling depression after typing that)
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SafireCreations Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Sadface
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LolitasLullaby Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2017  Student General Artist
Holy, that is creepy, literal stalker level crap right there, that is pretty scary, and I feel bad for you, even just seeing a bit about this, the person just feels off. I love your work, and even I wouldn't do this because it is just wrong
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SafireCreations Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Thank you bud. My fiancé has been trying to make this person stop but she seriously won't and is litterally obsessed with me. It is scary.
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LolitasLullaby Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2017  Student General Artist
It really is. I know I would not be very happy having having this happen to me, so i can understand that, especially since people who become obsessed like this are unpredictable. I really hope you can stop this in its tracks
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SafireCreations Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Me too. I have them blocked but they still don't get the hint.
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LolitasLullaby Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2017  Student General Artist
Exactly, I will wish you the best, and that this gets resolved soon
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SafireCreations Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Thank you :)
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:iconlolitaslullaby:
LolitasLullaby Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2017  Student General Artist
You're welcome
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Rosethorn1483 Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Just keep in mind of the new DA update on blocking and being blocked by people. We need to know if it is the same on the other end of things because then if it's true...


she won't even have her last fucking reason to be stalking you. And then we can finally, hopefully get her to officially fuck off. Because she won't be able to see your artwork anymore, Your gallery will be empty to her. she won't be able to even look through groups to find any as she will get kicked off of it saying she was blocked from you, the only thing she'll be able to see is journals and your front page.


If that's the case then, if we poke at her again, she can't say it's because she loves your work because she wouldn't even be able to fucking see it anymore! Then she would be LYING 


Or... Maybe that's even the reason she's looking. And she noticed the new update 
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SafireCreations Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2017  Student Digital Artist
We can hope so...
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Rosethorn1483 Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2017  Student Digital Artist
I'll try to help as much as I can love ; u ;
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SafireCreations Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Thank you love :)
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Rosethorn1483 Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Okay I finally confirmed that it is indeed the same thing the other way around -w- so if it works for you now... She can't see any of your art anymore.




I'm still going to keep an eye out, and I'll see if I can confront her myself if she does it again after this conformation as she really has no reason to stalk anymore except being creepy af.
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SafireCreations Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Kk thank you love
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Pumkinkiller777 Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2017
Ugh...Really? This is just too much. 
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SafireCreations Featured By Owner Sep 15, 2017  Student Digital Artist
I know. She needs to stop.
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Dierinks Featured By Owner Edited Aug 9, 2017  Professional Digital Artist
I truly feel your pain, my dude. I hope this stops soon. :nod:

Also, Sorry for talking much btw. I'm not much of a skype person. At least there's DA right? XD

There's not much I can really say but hope there's no need to go that far.
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SafireCreations Featured By Owner Aug 9, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Yeah I hope it stops. We'll see if she knocks it off.

Yeah XD but it's fine, I know you're busy.

I know. But with what she's done and with the threat, and multiple times for her to leave me alone, then yes that one is warranted.
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:iconeveechan:
EveeChan Featured By Owner Aug 9, 2017
*hugs* Q_Q
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SafireCreations Featured By Owner Aug 9, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Thank you Evee <3
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XristiEno Featured By Owner Aug 9, 2017  Professional Artist
I am sorry you are having to deal with that. I had to deal with that on a different form of media a few years ago myself. :( 
Best luck! if you need to vent or talk your free to note me. 
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SafireCreations Featured By Owner Aug 9, 2017  Student Digital Artist
I'm sorry that happened to you, how did you deal with it if I might ask?
Thank you for your support, it is really appreciated with both my fiancé and I.
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XristiEno Featured By Owner Aug 9, 2017  Professional Artist
Sadly. I hung in and stood my ground when she'd start stuff...not recommended since she was a full on loon I later found out.  anyway, I was miles away from what was happening. My boyfriend was in college and his 'friend' was causing a great deal of chaos. She'd stalk me and him online and like on SL (secondlife) if he was over in my side of the state she would text him like crazy... bleh.  finely it headed with her trying to run him over. they ARE some how still friends kinda. he keeps alot of space from her now but....its weird. :/ but anyhow he's out of college and we live together for now :> 


yeah no prob. just keep logs and stuff. you can take it to the courthouse if it gets really bad. and use it as proof to get a restriction order in place. 
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SafireCreations Featured By Owner Aug 9, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Thank you for telling me, I doubt it that this person is the same, but I am definitely sure they are obsessed with me and my artwork.
I'm really sorry that happened. And at least he didnt get run over. :)

Yeah I will. I have all the notes screencaped and the things above and a few more screencaps. So if she does try anything and makes it worse I'm sure I can do something.
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Blue-skul Featured By Owner Aug 9, 2017
Jeez, I don't see shit like that happen everyday. Considering this chick took things to far, I probably woulda called the authorities a long time ago. Fucking mess with the bull you get the horns am I right?
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SafireCreations Featured By Owner Aug 9, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Very true, but I guess I am being a little too nice in that aspect. But I will if they continue. But thank you for supporting us. We really do appreciate it. :) I really hope this person stops though. Maybe me reaching out here will get them to realize their wrong in taking this so far.
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Blue-skul Featured By Owner Aug 9, 2017
No problem, I know I don't say much when you post things and I do feel bad about that but I've always been here. Hopefully they'll realize it yes, but people don't change that easily, actions do speak more then words.
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SafireCreations Featured By Owner Aug 9, 2017  Student Digital Artist
I know, I'm just glad you have supported us for this long. Even through all the drama and bad luck we have had.
Thank you. Thank you, very much. <3
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Blue-skul Featured By Owner Aug 9, 2017
your very welcome, hope things get better soon. :)
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Kurenai-Uchigatana Featured By Owner Aug 9, 2017  Hobbyist Writer
geez, Sorry ya are having a hard time with this. Honestly stalking is really unnerving to me and I would have contacted police right away. I've been stalked before, it is not fun especially when they know your address and all that. Please stay safe. Don't want you to have to go through the constant panic I did with a stalker. -loves of love and support, Inazuma-
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SafireCreations Featured By Owner Aug 9, 2017  Student Digital Artist
I'm sorry the same happened. It really isn't fun at all. And if the person does continue then I will probably call the authorities.
Thank you for your support Inazuma, it really does help :)
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Kurenai-Uchigatana Featured By Owner Aug 9, 2017  Hobbyist Writer
anytime! Stay safe! <3
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SafireCreations Featured By Owner Aug 9, 2017  Student Digital Artist
I will, thank you <3
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