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It frustrates me how little some people really know about gender. While many people realise that its more than just two options male or female, there is many variations, femboys, tomboys, butch girls, etc. What some people dont get is that gender is seperate from sexual orientation. Just because a guy acts feminine doesnt mean hes gay nor does a manly girl mean shes a lesbian. While for a majority of the population, thing work out that guys act manly and like girls and girls act girly and like guys, for the other half theres variations.There are others out there regardless of physical body have characteristics of both genders who feel they are in the middle.

Sometimes there are people whos gender in their mind doesnt match the one of their physical body. And that adds a whole nother layer of combinations and variations. There are people out there, who may be a femboy but with a female body or a tomboy with a male body. It doesnt mean they are any less uncomfortable with the situation, a femboy doesnt always imply a male who wants to be female for example. I feel that just because someones not totally to the one end of the gender spectrum thats opposite to their body that they shouldnt be written off, that they should be taken seriously too.

Dont assume you know someone, you know what they want, what their dreams and hopes and fears are, unless you spent a few days in their body, in their mind, in their soul. Dont write them off as crazy, as just needing some ass or some cock, dont cast them aside as hopeless and strike them when they are most vulerable, when they open their heart and soul to you. Wake up every day and thank god or whomever you worship that you dont have these problems.

Nobody choses to be like this, none of this is a lifestyle choice. This is not a call for attention or any of the other things people say to write someone off who has problems. I hope for a day when people who have variations in their gender and sexual identity dont have to live their lives in hiding, where they can seek the help they need quickly and not have to live in fear of being cut off from their freinds and families who just dont understand. Who lose precious time in their lives to go out and be happy since the world is pulling them down.

I hope for a day that people shouldnt have to be hurt for being who they are.


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WAtheAnum Featured By Owner Aug 10, 2010  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
"I hope for a day that people shouldnt have to be hurt for being who they are."


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raeth Featured By Owner Apr 27, 2010
Nothing is less feminine than a femboy, and nothing is less masculine than a tomboy.
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PudgeyRedFox Featured By Owner Apr 27, 2010  Professional Traditional Artist
I dont understand. :ohnoes:
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raeth Featured By Owner Apr 27, 2010
Men who think they are they feminine or 'femboy' are fooling themselves, and are therefore the epitome of sad male delusion.

You can't hide that long face.
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PudgeyRedFox Featured By Owner Apr 27, 2010  Professional Traditional Artist
and what would you say to transgenders? men and women who undergo a sex change to become in line with thier mind and soul.
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raeth Featured By Owner Apr 27, 2010
I'd say that they'll soon realise that a sex change didn't cure their depression or self-esteem issues, and that they will become even more depressed due to having mutilated themselves irreparably.
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DistortedAlice Featured By Owner Apr 25, 2010  Student General Artist
i like this journal..and its true some people feel they were born in the wrong body. Some people need to learn how to listen and respect others orientation and not draw they're own conclusions
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ChessYoshi Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2010
The theory of acting like the other gender equally gay is unfounded. There are masculine gay guys and feminine lesbians. Of course, if we all acted the same, the world would be a boring patry dish.
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Barkis1 Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2010
Leben und leben lassen!
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ShanetheFreestyler Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2010  Hobbyist
I'm bi, somewhat a femboy, but other than that, I'm just a guy wanting to enjoy every day I can. ^^
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SparklyStarStudios Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2010  Student Digital Artist
Live and let live! That's what I always say!
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ATSF3751UP3985 Featured By Owner Apr 23, 2010   Filmographer
I'm the same. I'm a BI femboi. alotta idiots annoy me at school. F*CK THEM!
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Chakat-Anti Featured By Owner Apr 22, 2010
i can vouch for you on that cause im gender dysphoric im a girl in a male or vice vursa body and have started my hormone therepy and i get people almost bullying me about it calling me a faghag but im kinda ignoring people nowadays about it
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PudgeyRedFox Featured By Owner Apr 22, 2010  Professional Traditional Artist
I wish you well in your transition :D
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Chakat-Anti Featured By Owner Apr 22, 2010
thank you very much hun <3 tis nice to have some that understand hehe im on hormone supressants but soon on my main hormones <3
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PudgeyRedFox Featured By Owner Apr 22, 2010  Professional Traditional Artist
oh I understand perfectly ^^
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Chakat-Anti Featured By Owner Apr 22, 2010
thanks hunny <3 means allot -huggles-
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mechasonic777 Featured By Owner Apr 22, 2010
Very wise and informing
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