So I'm cisgender female, and I identify as sexually&romantically QUEER. Lately, I've been leaning towards wanting a girlfriend or female-based partner (I say "female-based" and not "feminine" because I don't entirely know how I feel about being with trans-girls in a sensual way - friends for sure, I'm really friendly and accepting and caring). I once identified as POLYSEXUAL/ROMANTIC, but it was really difficult to make an actual list of what kind of people I specifically liked and didn't like, hence my identity of QUEER because it is generic/open/vague. I dislike extreme masculinity and extreme femininity (for a partner), but I do not care what my partner's orientation is. Internally, I really enjoy the ideal of seemingly-sensual activities in a platonic way; cuddling, light kisses on cheeks/foreheads/hands, hand-holding perhaps (although I prefer to link arms or wrap arms around waists). However, even though I have confessed that to my lovey-dovey college squad friends, I still have trouble outwardly acting in such a way. I also really love pet names (darling, deary, sweetheart, honey, etc.) in general.
I think that's it. So, I want the focus to be the queer flag (cause it's awesome!), but maybe with a dash or colored symbol like "leaning towards women-like folk", "lovey-dovey", or just something else that is unique to me.
If you need more info, please don't hesitate to ask. I really appreciate your even considering putting something together for me!