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Obligender

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Olbigender: Pronounced ob-li-gender: A gender that is defined by having a partial connection to your AGAB because of coercion or abuse, as well as the presence of gender uncertainty. From obligation + gender. Similar to demigender. A person who identifies as obligender may use the terms oblimasculine or oblifeminine to describe themselves if they feel comfortable doing so. 

A note from the designer: "I should make it known right now before all the “anti special snowflake” assholes come out of the woodwork, that I, the one who originally saw the need for this term, am a trauma victim who believes that this term will help other trauma victims who are trying to make sense of how their abuse and their gender identity intersect. Specifically, I am a CAFAB demigirl who feels like I would be fully agender if it weren’t for my past religious abuse. Please be considerate of that".

Term coined by: bazer63
Designed by: to-reach-the-farthest-star



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Saviitrius's avatar
That makes sense. :)
cosmic-jelly's avatar
no. it does not.
Saviitrius's avatar
It does a little bit if you think about psychological trauma (since the definition mentions abuse). It can change someone permanently depending on the severity. Believe me, I don't understand even the majority of genders listed on Pride-Flags. I wish I did. Sometimes the description is enough, but not always.