Ok, well lets say a person has one little brother who is totally awesome (despite being a filthy Joe) but his other little brother unfortunately died suddenly without warning because of a stupid choice he made one night. So this man in our scenario has one sibling which is awesome, but unfortunately nothing he can do will ever get that sibling back? Is having a sibling and losing them forever and all time, not as bad or "unfortunate" as never having one to begin with? If this man were me, I'd say it would be worse, cause you know exactly what that person would be like and so one knows what they're missing out on... everyday, till the day they themselves die. So is that awesome that this man still has one sibling he cares the world about; or unfortunate because he had another sibling but will never see them again?
And therein lies the conundrum of your limited voting options.