1 thing you want to dare to do this year? Comment!
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Published: February 11, 2012
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ElementInfinityStudent General Artist
Kiss a certain someone...
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Ooh, go for it :nod:
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ElementInfinityStudent General Artist
=]
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I want to talk to people without thinking that they are judging me and without shaking like crazy.
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Sounds like a slight case of social phobia? I have that too, but I read in this social psychology book (fun course in college) which said that people are too busy thinking about themselves so they barely remember you. For example, if you think back on the first time you met someone lately - do you remember what the person was wearing or what colour the shirt was? Probably not or probably very hazy and as much as you remember that is how much they will remember about you except if you were friendly or an overbearing douche which they don't want to talk to again (the last I don't think you are).

Put yourself into situations, slowly. Make a list of things that make you nervous and scare you and the ones with the mildest shakyness, try to get yourself into such situations and you will practice. You will also soon get the courage for the worse ones and the good feeling you get from the first ones will come along to the other situations where you have to talk to people.
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great-queen-morriganProfessional General Artist
I would like to be more courageous and decisive, but I'm not sure i will be able to so cause these are my long terming troubles
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Practice a little every day. Is there something you can do to overcome those long term troubles?
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From time to time...I'm triing to decide more quickly and don't think about possible negative outcoms too much cause they are able to spoil almost every idea or decission and one lost courage cause of this all.Sometimes it's better sometimes the same or worse...so we will see:)
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Sounds good to me, some decision needs more thinking that goes without saying but it's not always good to think too much.
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great-queen-morriganProfessional General Artist
That's it:nod:There are things you cant rush in to without thinking:nod:it can cause problems and disasters.But I still tend to owerhink everything...for example-I'm considering buying cat for year now...I still don't know...afraid money might be  an issue:(so I'm uncertain.On other hand I see many ppl who simply buy a pet and don't think about this at all.
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So, have you bought the cat yet? ;)

I think that if you haven't you should, there are always cats to adopt that need a home.
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great-queen-morriganProfessional General Artist
Hi there!:) I'm making another one appearance here, it seems:)

Yes!:bounce: Finally! I have cat:love: I'm so happy I finally decided. The best decision ever. He is great! His name is Vayu and he's very courageous (he isn't afraid of almost anything from fireworks to vet), playful and sociable and he tries to communicate a lot. Pity I can't understand him better. He is half british and half Balinese, but it seems he is rather half dog half acid. He devours anything like acid does, absolutely anything from salad to pasta, potatoes, chilli...I have to be very cautious:D
He seems to have somewhat not very cat-like mannerism, too:) Well, in some regards.
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I want to be featured in a magazine hahaha :D
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That's something you want, that's not the same as wanting to dare something that might scare you :aww:
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vivalanatProfessional Digital Artist
hmmmm wait lemme think again o yeah i scared of heights so if some one will dare me to go sky diving or cliff diving i'll be scare to death
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Well, then dare this year and do it? :aww:
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there are so many things I dare to do .....
mine is to get a really good street shot.......
that's daring for me......!!
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Best of luck :aww:
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Thanks so very much.....:hug:
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Go up in a hot air balloon!
Not scary but I look forward to trying it.
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Ooooh that's something I'd like to do some day too!
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Make sure you take your camera! It's my summer goal for this year, birthday present to self.
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You have to send me links to those gorgeous pictures you will take :nod:
Excellent birthday choice!
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Okay! I will!
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