Trust is the basic foundations for any relationship. Without it how can you call another a "friend". Everything else on the list just comes with a friendship, for better or for worse it what makes them... them. Sometimes you have to help them with the worse parts of them to make it at least a little bit better.
But i'm a person with about 3 friends IRL and about 2 online (that I have lost contact with) so I don't have the most of experience from observation to say for sure.
OH MAN THAT'S TOUGH lkajsdlfkj i had no idea there were so many traits i disliked but I put negative first, because it gets tiring to always be cheering them up and having like only 10% funtimes which is what probably attracted you to them in the first place-- and you know those lil negative nellys won't care for your problems, because they're so ensconced in their own!
I think domineering and blunt would be a solid second though!
I actually hate my friend that is like "I got multiple personalities" and she does "I get hulicinations all the time, oh there's one" and worst of all "a demon lives inside me. She acts like a child, and she's older than me. She's a fricking attention whore -.- lol
I'm glad that dishonesty is first--cause I mean if you can't trust a person then you kinda can't...trust to build any relationship with them? But..it kinda makes me sad that negative is second most. I know people want to try to stay away from negativity at all costs, but when you think about it, those kinds of people are probably the ones that need help most and need someone to talk to. I mean does everyone REALLY believe that negative people actually LIKE being negative???
I'm fine with blunt people, some dishonesty I can deal with, I can take endure the talkative and over-judgment. But negativity drains the heck out of me, so I always try to avoid that if I can't change it.
Unreliablity / ignoring me. Look I don't care what you're like. If you're always there and always show that you care at least in some way I few you a lot better than those that don't. Don't run off and do all these other things and not even check in on me or anything. Don't ignore someone when they're trying to reach out to you. Be there.
(I have some of the flaws here I know. Espeically mood swings and being easily hurt. Hell, those are a big component of who I am. )
(I'll also note inconsistancy sucks. Although to me it's less mood swings and more switching between how open you are with someone. It doesn't feel good or healthy to feel good with someone one day and then bad the next)
I had hard time choosing between dishonest and egoistical - there is also those who think they are ALWAYS the damn victim when they have fucked up something and then go "Let's not make this about you" when talking to the person they've insulted.
I've actually met someone with all these three traits... Brrrh. Never again.
I'm that talkative friend of my group that doesn't shut the fuck up, lmao. Just ask agent-bucky - and they might bring up the cock sausage story omg;;
BUT YEAH FOR ME IT'S MOOD SWINGS ALL THE WAY LIKE JESUS FUCK.
I can handle negative, blunt (haha tori u know bc I can handle Elijah), dishonest, and even fucking egotistical. But I can't handle fast n' furious mood swings or those that talk shit about people only by what they've heard/seen from their appearance smfh.