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Ok there something i really want to get off my chest right now since its happening to me too often now,

So as most know im single, and tbh i like being single it allows me to find love in my own time but as well it allows me to focus on more important things like my carrier and not a boy or girl.
However im finding it that some of my friends are now taking this to an advantage to both flirt with me and make a comment on both my physical appearance and my personality.
I understand i cant stop people having crushes or not, but i personally just don't like being called things like "Sexy" or "Full Package" i find this both very inappropriate and kinda embarrassing for me. 

I also dont like being called "Princess" or people saying to me that im their girl, i know its a compliment and a flirt, but i only like it if im dateing the person as its understandable to call someone that, but from people who are just my friends or random straingers i find it uncomfortable (unless ive said otherswise to you), because it sounds like im theirs only when im not even not even dateing them.

My final things is not to be rude or anything but im only 17, and some of the people both here, Facebook and skype who are doing this are in their 20's and 30's, now im not someone who thinks dating should have an age on, but i feel its just very inappropriate to be saying this to someone pretty much younger then them.

Im happy being single, i dont mind people calling me pretty and stuff, but please dont take it any further then that, i just dont feel comfortable with it, especially from random strangers who i dont know. 
Please just respect my wishes and leave it there.

Im sorry for having to post this but its getting too far and i really dont like it.
Thank you x

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:iconbrigetmiget:
brigetmiget Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2018  Hobbyist General Artist
Those people need to (excuse my language) fuck off seriously do they not know how not only how rude that can be but how offensive and degrading it can be as well?! I’m sorry you’ve been having to put up with that crap \huggle
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NatalieGuest Featured By Owner Mar 12, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I agree with everything you are saying there girly, some people just don't know how to leave one alone *huggles*
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brigetmiget Featured By Owner Mar 12, 2018  Hobbyist General Artist
//huggles
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LilThiefSilverBunny Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2018  Student Traditional Artist
Okay, that's just crazy! And wrong! 
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:iconnatalieguest:
NatalieGuest Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Agreed there
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:iconipku:
Ipku Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Next time, let me have their profile so I can humiliate them.
I actually have a book about repelling catcallers.
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CobraCatDragon2898 Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2018  Student Digital Artist
(ooh what's this book called?)
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:iconipku:
Ipku Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
The Snark Handbook
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:iconnatalieguest:
NatalieGuest Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
i have a rather large handfull of people who do it, I made a list LOL
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:iconipku:
Ipku Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Ah.
Hmm...

This may be a bad idea, but...

... lemme note you.
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:iconnatalieguest:
NatalieGuest Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Ok
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JackHammer86 Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
That's fucked up.
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NatalieGuest Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
agreed
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