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 "if your absence doesn’t affect them, your presence never mattered"

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cartoonygothica Featured By Owner Jan 27, 2017
[I suppose that's true.]
CitrusEucalyptus Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2017  Professional General Artist
I like your new icon. :)
RetroEULE Featured By Owner Edited Jan 26, 2017
I would say, it depends on the occasion. As for me, when I cutted that one friendship last year I wasn't really affected. Sure I was kinda sad a few times but it didn't affect me. I just went on. Didn't mean that their presence never mattered, the reasons to cut off that person were just way too strong in the end and it was the better solution for myself. When I lost a few other friends in the past, I was sad for several years- two particular friendship affects me til now. One of those persons left DA entirely (at least the account I knew) but even after a few years she still told me she missed me but at that point sadly we weren't able to connect- another one is famous but I know her, she suffered at some degree but at the outside I thought she wouldn't care.Another friendship I just had let 'die' because it hasn't mattered if I would have said anything or not, but she mattered for more then 10 years and was a big part of my former life, the friendship just faded away due to various reasons. In my opinion, this sentence can't and shouldn't be generalized but it can unfortunately also be the truth. People see friendships in a different way, I have to be aware that many people might see friendship not as important and irreplacable as I do. Plus on the internet, most people seem happy eventho they are sad inside (myself included). It's a matter of point of view, we can't see in other peoples head- it's just some persons seem to be simply better in 'moving on' then others. Unfortunately, you seem not. I know this feeling.

Just my two cents C:
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