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The feel when you like a guy who is like 14 years older than you...

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:iconkryptid:
Kryptid Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2016
If you're into him, I wouldn't worry about the age difference.
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:iconcartoonygothica:
cartoonygothica Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2016
[Well, still give him a chance.  If you like him, it should be fine, since you're no longer a minor.]
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nadairead Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2016  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I just don't know if I want this change in my life.
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:iconcartoonygothica:
cartoonygothica Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2016
[You mean having a boyfriend?]
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nadairead Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2016  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I've had one and I am happy to be single actually
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:iconcartoonygothica:
cartoonygothica Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2016
[I see.  Well, if that's the case, then you shouldn't have to worry about pursuing a relationship with him.]
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Wild-Nekodog Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2016  Hobbyist
... should be the same than liking someone of your age^^
Es gibt so viele wesentlich merkwürdigere und trotzdem glückliche Paare auf dieser Welt. Es ist dein Leben, und du musst jeden Tag damit klar kommen und sonst niemand. Also kümmer dich nicht darum was andere sagen oder denken könnten. Wie die anderen sagen, sei offen und schau was darauß wird oder eben nicht wird.
Steh dir nicht immer selbst im Weg Wink/Razz 
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:iconrabentag:
Rabentag Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Stop thinking too much about that :)
Lass es einfach auf dich zukommen, wenn es kommt und lerne ihn auch besser kennen - behandle ihn so, wie du es mit jedem tun würdest, der meinetwegen nur ein Jahr älter ist als du :) Wie Zeli sagt, ich finds absolut legitim
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:iconzelendur:
Zelendur Featured By Owner Edited Nov 28, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
LOL my sisters BF is about 25 years older than her and she moved in with him a few weeks ago.
Don't let age stop you if you like him ;)
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nadairead Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2016  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Doesn't it feel like you're with a pedophile then?
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:iconzelendur:
Zelendur Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Well, you're not a kid, but a grown-up woman and everything would be in consent.
Why would it be a pedophile? Love is love, no matter the age, gender, race, or whatever :>

I personally wouldn't date an man so much older than me, but I'm fine with my sister doing so.
It will probably cause a few people to make dumb remarks or you'll probably receive some stares, but all in all, it's none of other peoples business who you love and want to be with.
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:iconrabentag:
Rabentag Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
You are so right, Zelee :D
I dated a guy who was 10 years older than me - I never had the feeling he was so much older than me. And in situations I noticed I was just like: you are fascinating me!
So I think someone shouldn't care too much about this :D
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:iconzelendur:
Zelendur Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
True words!
I personally never felt attracted to a mayorly older guy, but I've been confronted with that topic due to my sister dating a 54 year old.
I was pretty weirded out first, but the guy is really alright and treats her well, they are happy together, so why would I judge?
It's her life and her boyfriend, and all I care for is that she's happy and treated well. :3
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:iconrabentag:
Rabentag Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
True! :D

I never thought about that before either but then it hit me like EFLBNFEWIHHF and I had a wonderful time with him. I regret nothing even if it didn't last for ever, just for 2 years.
I really like your thoughts about your sister and her BF! And I think that's the only thing your sister wants <3 The acceptance of her family and to be happy with him :D
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nadairead Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2016  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Can't tell if it's love already actually...
I like this guy. He's fine. And he doesn't look like 42 to be honest.
But eh... we'll see. Too many doubts at the moment.
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:iconzelendur:
Zelendur Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Just give yourself some time!
Love needs to grow, it's not hitting you like a brick most of the time.
But that's alright! Just hang out with him if you enjoy doing so and don't expect anything.
If it happens, it'll be fine, if it doesn't, then there's not much lost.
All i wanted to say is, don't make yourself unhappy just because he's older than you. My sister had the same doubts before, but once she decided to give it a try and 'came out' to be with him, she felt waaaay happier and she's still happy.

Just let it happen and everything will sort itself out eventually! :hug:
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