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two days til my birthday and a week until a scheduled trip to california then to texas to see my family, and there are some financial issues looming over what is supposed to be a fun and relaxing weekend. i was already a little tight for cash myself as usual, but things are looking a lot tighter than expected for both me and my girlfriend suddenly and i would like us to not have to worry so much while we’re out there
long story short, my gf has had plenty in her savings to keep us comfy for should anything happen, but yesterday the entire steering assembly on her car went kaput which equals pretty much her entire savings to get it fully replaced. her sister has offered to help her out with a loan, but most of her savings are gonna be pretty much owed at this point cutting way back on our security for the trip and in general for a while. we're almost guaranteed transportation costs for a while since the car is out of commission until they replace the steering. my birthday wish is to not have to worry about the impact of those costs and potential unexpected costs that could crop up while we're out of state, because without the cushion of those savings anything can happen and basically we are two tightly-wound balls of anxiety jhfdgffsddsfdssgfgsg
basically between worrying about this, and my cat luca passing away the day before yesterday, i'm NOT having the best birthday week. dunno if it's the worse i've ever had, but it's.. pretty bad!!
i would be beyond appreciative if any of my friends and followers wanted to help me out a few buck's worth, consider it as a birthday gift; i have a i have a ko-fi account , and a donations button on my blog here (bottom of the description in browser mode) for a more specific amount ;;