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A Thing I'm Not Cool With

Wed Feb 20, 2013, 11:15 AM

Okay. I'm needing to let go of some steam. But the moral of the story for me is "karma is a bitch".

Life is an interesting series of twists and turns, and everyone's life takes a different path. Occasionally, these paths cross, and you'll make friends, acquaintances, and even enemies. Along these crossed wires, bonds are strengthened, and some are weakened. People get offended, and others are cheered on. People make progress, and people make mistakes.

No matter what path you take, however, you can guarantee that all of these things will happen. You will befriend, anger, offend, entertain, weaken, and strengthen people. The thing is, you need to be prepared for the bad stuff to happen to you, no matter how often it will seem to come... But even with all the preparation, there are some things that will knock you down for six.

Recently, I've lost some good friends over something that I find very painful. What they did destroyed my trust, and offended me to my very core. I've tried by best to forgive, and tolerate their decision. But ultimately, what hurt me the most about their choice is that they did not and do not care about my emotions or opinions on the matter whatsoever. And, while I am grasping for any scrap of moral decency within me, all I'm coming up with is hatred.

When you put a ring on a woman's finger, you don't do it for a laugh. You'll never truly let go of that person when things go sour. A part of you will always cherish and love her, regardless of everything she's ignorantly, and somehow innocently, done to hurt you.

An old high-school friend of mine, whom of which was the last of a small handful of friends that remained from that era, a friend who I trusted, helped, and cared about... My friend is sleeping with my ex-fiance.

And I'm not cool with that.

wickednavi Featured By Owner Feb 20, 2013  Professional General Artist
The meanest thought came to mind, but, ex does mean ex. I am an ex fiancÚ of a friend of mine, not the best subject.

But I think its a girl thing but most girls I know, do not broetta. There is no bros before hos for ladies. If your friend stepped in, it sucks but that's kinda out of your control. I know guys care more about this but girls usually totally don't. (partly why I hate and don't trust females is because I know how we really think)

Best advice is to tell your friend and ex you don't want to hear about it. I sound really snappy, and not really on your side, but its just a mean kinda honesty.

Sorry dudes *hugs*

It's real shitty to be felt moved on from when rings were involved. Lordy knows I had a super crap time with it.
SwitchFG Featured By Owner Feb 20, 2013  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Hey. I know what you're going through right now is rough. I think everyone can agree that you not being cool with it is reasonable. Sometimes people just think of their own emotions and won't see how what they do next might hurt someone. In the end, you're hurt by not one, but two people you really care about, but know this, it's your decision from here what you're going to make of it. Now, you can cut them out or try to forgive them, and I already know which one you're probably doing ... that's not the real decision, though. The real decision is whether you're going to dwell on this, prodding it every time you remember it and effectively keeping the wound open or bandage it up and let it heal.
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