wait i am a bit confused here. are you supportive of he/him lesbians? sorry i don't understand what's happening people shouldn't be shitting on he/him lesbians in general they have done nothing but well .. Use he/him pronouns, the commissioner and kd doesn't deserve to have awful comments like this
i'm sorry you had to hear those things, to me, that sounds like more of cis people who are NOT he/him lesbians being transphobic rather than he/him lesbians existing. i don't think it's cis people wanting to disregard trans people's identities. i think it's more of lesbians being uncomfortable with certain pronouns, and preferring he/him.
I've never seen a he/him lesbian go around calling trans people the wrong pronouns. because i'm sure he'd wanna be called by the correct pronouns aswell.
if a cis person who ISN'T a lesbian is going around being transphobic, that's them. not lesbians. i would judge said cis people for being transphobic, instead of lesbians who aren't doing any harm by using he/him pronouns. it's not their fault if people are transphobic.
my comment's gotten long, sorry about that. i just really think there's no link to cis people being transphobic and invalidating trans people's identities, and a lesbian being comfortable with, and using, he/him pronouns. because there isn't. i just really do not see how they are harmful and transphobic for having preferred pronouns. because they aren't.
i just really think they (as in every he/him lesbian) should be able to identify how they're most comfortable without having people attack them over it.
(i didn't understand the explanation entirely, was why i asked. sorry if i repeated myself or wasn't too clear about any of all this. i'm not too good at deviantart commenting. don't hesitate to ask if somethings confuseing. i'm not to good at getting my point across. my point is he/him lesbians aren't harming anyone.)_