I had a long and vivid dream that helped organize some of the more complex life-issues of my relationship with Katie, a beautiful, well-educated and driven individual, who for all personal characteristics, had more in common with me than any other woman I've been with. This vision lasted three and a half hours, and it seemed to play out in real time.       In the dream I was with my dearest friend and lover Katie and we were staying for an extended period at a beautiful resort in Miami which was, for the most part, a collection of small duplex apartments linked by outside covered walkways. The setting was that of a botanical garden residing