Everyone is entitled to their opinion. Everyone will judge and be judged themselves. People will always talk no matter what.
Yet, if I have an opinion for anything they tell me, suddenly I'm the biggest judgemental bitch in the entire universe to them.
Seriously, guys, if I tell you something to me seems off about x or y thing you did, I'm not telling you because I'm better than you. I tell you what I think because I care about you and I really do not like to see you hurt.
Something that keeps popping up whenever someone freaks out about my judgement: What did I do?
Did I leave you by yourself when you needed me? Did I betray you and hurt you? Did I pick on you just for kicks? did I sleep with your boyfriend? Did I spread rumors about you? Did I run over your pet? Did I kill you?
I don't know what to do. If I stay quiet, I'm plotting against them. If I talk, I'm better than them. If I pull away, I'm a frosty bitch. If I'm too caring, I'm a motherly smotherer.
This leads me to always question myself and view the world in shades of black and white. I cannot cope with gray in any areas of my life. If I'm your friend, then you know that everything I say and do is to try and help you. I am a very selfless person. I think of others before I think of myself, and maybe that's why this mess has happened.
What did I do?