Some people believe Destiny and Fate are the same....I beg to differ.
It is the devil in the details or simply the spin in the yarn.....it is my belief that your Fate is what you are born into, it is the beginning and underlying theme of your life's story. It is the one thing you do not control. Destiny is the outcome of your fate....what you do that leads you to your eventuality. Destiny is something you decide, for each decision you make leads you to your destiny. So Fate is saying you were born into mediocrity....Destiny tells us what you did with that for better or for worse, becoming the star of your dreams or the victim of your own tragedy.
So the question is what is keeping you from your destiny?
Well yes and no. Can you make 500 million - the answer is anyone willing to learn what it takes to play the stock market, real estate or what not...not just learn but master....most of us get tied up in the happenings of life and lose interest. As for the victoria secrets models....easy answer - become a photographer.....your winning personality will surround you with beautiful women.....
I call it the moment of decision. We all live our lives going in a direction until we get to the "Moment of decision" The first one is around 17-20? Somewhere around there. When we finally get to what we think of as adult. Then we get to the big one, Its usually around 28-33. That is when we really find out who and what we are. This one dictates what you said " becoming the star of your dreams or the victim of your own tragedy." and when your life takes off in that direction based on what you do with those lemons.
Just my input based on the fact I have had a heart attack, Pulmonary Embolism from blood clots, high blood pressure, and major intestinal surgery in the last 4 years... The funny thing is these are all Extra Intestinal Manifestations Of Crohns. Fun and games huh? LMAO! What i do know is that your attitude towards what happens to you will determine just how sweet or bitter the lemonade is. Keep your head up Brother man.
It is a very interesting take on what otherwise might be said to the old adage of taking lemons and making lemonade. One can either let life make you or you can try to make something out of life. Fate being, in this definition, what you can't control and Destiny is what you can do about it.