To all those people who "wish they were optimistic":
Stop wishing and start really trying,you won't regret
Listen: I know from experience that being an optimist is freakin' hard sometimes.Finding positive aspects of some situations may seem impossible,but if you thought that being an optimist means being ALWAYS happy,you were WRONG!It's impossible to be completely satisfied with all situations,I think you know it too and I understand...People get it wrong and assume we're stupid because we can't see flaws,but that not what optimism means at all
So what does this enigmatic word mean?
Not always expecting the best,but having hope for it;
Not being never sad,but reducing sadness before it occurs (and if it does,still keeping hope for better future);
Not going the easiest way,but chosing the hardest one instead and never regretting it;
Not fruitless,and if you think so,you obviously never tried to think positive
Not stupid,because just think,what pessimism brings you and what optimism does?
Not being careless,everyone cares deeply for something and if they don't,they must be sad
Not never seeing any negatives at all,but appreciating any postives,no matter how small;
Not impossible for some people,ANYONE can learn it,and no matter how hard it may seem,it's ALWAYS plausible to achieve!
And final argument: remember,hardly ever someone's born an optimist.I think you have to go through hell before,so you can finally truly admire what the world offers us ;-3 Do really you think I always sounded like this?You obviously don't know me Ok,enough; I realize that probably not much people will see this anyway,and very little would read,but I still have the right to hope Wish you all a great day,thanks <3