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I am evil because I was made by sex. by Little-rolling-bean I am evil because I was made by sex. by Little-rolling-bean
I am very sick of small minded people demonising sex as if it is the worst thing in the world. You do not have to like it at all, but do you seriously have to be so closed minded about the subject of sex?

A reason why I hate the demonisation of sex is from one incident in my childhood where a teacher screamed her head off at me when I said the word "sex".
I did not realise it was something you couldn't talk about, and to this day I still do not get it.
If we all talked about sex more, there would be less unwanted pregnancies, std and bad choices. But nope, since it's something so terrible we MUST keep hush hush about it even though talking about it would spread awareness on how to have safe and clean sex. God forbid someone has instincts!

Here are some arguments I have heard against it:

"Sex spreads diseases!"
Yeah, when unprotected and done with a random person, and when it's not fucking talked about. Also, food can spread diseases, I suppose food is bad now?

"It's gross!"
BITCH IT MADE YOU. YOUR MERE EXISTENCE RELIED ON "GROSS" SEX.

"Sex is sinful!"
If the act of making babies is "sinful", then why are babies themselves considered "God's Miracles"?

"Rape is sex!"
And sex is not always rape. Most sex is consensual. You cannot just be against consensual sex because it's sometimes not consensual. That is just stupid.

"Well I don't wanna see it!"
Then don't watch porn. Then don't go into someone's bedroom without knocking. Sex is always done in private, and it is usually your fault if you stumble across it.

"I don't wanna have sex!"
And that is OK. But don't force others to not want it. Seriously, not everyone is going to be a mini me of YOU.

"Lust is a sin!"
Lust is the instinct that gets us to reproduce in the first place. I suppose humanity existing is a sin.

"The children!!!"
So we just stay quiet and stop spreading sexual education because you think kids knowing about it is gonna make them combust into flames or something? Sex is not going to harm kids if you teach them about it in the right way before they learn about it from stumbling upon porn. A kid learning about sex via porn is much more harmful than a kid learning about it from a school friend, overhearing a conversation or from you. Teach them as early as you can. I say at age 6 or 7.
In fact, it is better they know so that they do not grow up to be sex maniacs or someone utterly disgusted by sex.

"It should only be until marriage"
Why should it? If marriage is so sacred that we have to keep ourselves for, then why does 50% of it end in divorce? If it is supposedly so harmful to have sex before marriage, then having sex after marriage is a 50% chance of it being even more harmful due to the divorce rates. Sex sometimes strengthens the bond between a couple, because it is an instinct between couples to do it. If you wanna wait, that is fine. Sometimes lack of sex is for the better for some couples. But every relationship works differently, so let others have sex before marriage if they want to. 
I suppose we all just stop having sex and make humanity die. Yeah, that is totally not as harmful.

"Masturbation is bad because it's gross and sinful!"
Masturbation is probably the safest form of gaining pleasure ever. It is clean, does not cause diseases (as long as you wash your hands and toys before and after) and usually does not end up in pregnancy. It is a type of abstinence solution that still gives you the same pleasure as sex does. Everyone wins. It is also good for you.
How the hell is that a bad thing? Oh wait, YOU find it gross, and we should NEVER do or like things that YOU don't like. Possessive fuck.

"Well fetishes are weird!"
As long as they are kept in fantasy, why should you care? It's not like they are going out and raping people. But considering how much you cry about other peoples fantasy sexual preferences rather than sexual actions of others, you would RATHER they go out and rape provided they do not draw inflated Furries. HEAVEN FORBID INFLATED FURRIES.

I am going to be a sex therapist when I am older because I want to educate people about sex in a positive and reasonable light. It really grinds my gears to see such terrible attitudes to something as normal as eating.
Sex should be accepted, not shunned. Because it is a vital key in humanity's survival. I am not saying you HAVE to have sex, a few people not liking it is not gonna stop future generations, but quit acting like sex is worse than Satan himself.

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:iconthecartoonwizard:
TheCartoonWizard Featured By Owner Jul 6, 2018  Hobbyist Artist
why can't I stop thinking about having sex?
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:iconadrianepicl:
Adrianepicl Featured By Owner May 31, 2018  Hobbyist General Artist
well underage sex is actually kinda bad
just sayin
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:iconambroiseviridian:
AmbroiseViridian Featured By Owner Jun 15, 2018
and what is "underage sex" for you?
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:iconadrianepicl:
Adrianepicl Featured By Owner Jun 15, 2018  Hobbyist General Artist
sex that is under the age of consent
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:iconambroiseviridian:
AmbroiseViridian Featured By Owner Jun 16, 2018
well this is rape and pedophilia
the stamps talk about normal sex
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:iconadrianepicl:
Adrianepicl Featured By Owner Jun 16, 2018  Hobbyist General Artist
No
when I talk about underage sex, I'm talking about the people who do it when there not forced to which shows irresponsibility
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:iconambroiseviridian:
AmbroiseViridian Featured By Owner Jun 16, 2018
i don't really see any problem except if one of the partner is adult he can get in trouble for nothing
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:iconadrianepicl:
Adrianepicl Featured By Owner Jun 16, 2018  Hobbyist General Artist
yeah but what about the fact that its literally kids being to fucking horny and irresponsible to follow a law.
plus, the law is there for a reason
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MlXJ3STlC Featured By Owner Mar 30, 2018  Hobbyist

i used to think its a bad thing but then i realised it this is how we, humans, are made
i dont think its bad, its just disgusting to me xddd
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:iconsammymiguelluis:
SammyMiguelLuis Featured By Owner Mar 26, 2018  Professional General Artist
Except for anal sex.
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:iconkayanne21:
kayanne21 Featured By Owner Mar 19, 2018  Hobbyist General Artist
I very much doubt these are adults saying this. These, if I had to guess, are the words of very prudish 11 year olds. And I know this because I used to be one. I had good parents so I never got onto sites like this until I was old enough but that's besides the point.

This I think is the issue with the whole safe-sex thing that's going on right now. Kids are finding out about sex at an earliest age and to compensate, I think a lot of authority figures are trying to demonize it by playing up the dangers without actually talking about it. They're more interested in scaring people to the point where they never want to have sex than actually educating them.

I remember when I had sex ed, we were around 12 years old so most kids hadn't actually had sex yet but we were at that age where we knew what it was and just needed more info. We were taught about condoms, masturbation, orgasms along with the general reproduction stuff. Point is, they didn't try and scare us. They just taught us stuff about sex. It was awkward but...that was it. 
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TanukiKlaw Featured By Owner Apr 5, 2018  Hobbyist General Artist
Not too long ago we were taught that kind of stuff in health class.
I pretty much knew all of it, though :shrug:
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TanukiKlaw Featured By Owner Mar 4, 2018  Hobbyist General Artist
Why do people demonize it so much? The world is honestly pretty gross, and I can maybe see why sexual situations would make you uncomfortable, but that doesn't give you the right to demonize it.
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Cream-Puff-Crossing Featured By Owner Jan 31, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Wow. These are grown adults saying this stuff? This is something I’d expect from little kids who don’t understand the concept.
Though, three things I want to say:
1. There actually has been a cases of public sex though, which is... odd. I mean I guess it isn’t bad but it’s just something you should do in private
2. The argument “lust is a sin” makes me shake my head. Lust itself is not a sin. However, if your lust motivates you to do something harmful (ex: rape) then it is a big sin.
3. I can’t believe so-called “Christians” think that masturbation is sinful. From what I know, it is sinful to do it while watching real-life porn if you’re already with someone (because it would be a form of cheating on another person by doing that to another, even on a screen) I personally don’t really care for real life porn as it just feels like I’m stalking someone but either way it isn’t that big of a deal.
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RainbowHeartburst Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2018  Hobbyist General Artist
Sex is a natural thing. Even though I am not interested in taking part in it yet, I can still acknowledge that it exists, say "Okay, I don't like this that much, but other people do and I can't change their opinion," and move on. There is no need for any "EEEEEEEEEEEEEEWWWWWWW SEX IS BAD! ITS GROSS! ITS EVIL! PEOPLE WHO HAVE SEX ARE BAD!" No. Sex made you. It made all of us. It's pretty much the reason you're hear right now, reading this stupid comment. If you don't like it, fine. Go ahead. Dislike, even hate it. Just don't have a whole shitstorm about it. Understand that you can't change how life works, and move on.
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ANIMALJAMARCADE Featured By Owner Jan 2, 2018  Hobbyist Artist
This spreads a good message :3
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:icontultsi93:
tultsi93 Featured By Owner Dec 30, 2017  Hobbyist Artist
Sex isn't an evil thing. Pressureing people into it is.
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:iconkayanne21:
kayanne21 Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
Of course sex is gross. Everything's gross. We're animated flesh. We're fluid filled sacks of very slowly rotting skin walking around. I mean, think about what eating actually is. Ever actually thought about that. It's disgusting. We're disgusting. Life is disgusting.
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:iconcxpulus:
cxpulus Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2017
its a physiological need actually
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:iconpinkiediamondstone15:
PinkieDiamondstone15 Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2017  Student General Artist
I'm asexual,but I don't go that far tho
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:iconbonbons-qoops:
BonBons-Qoops Featured By Owner Dec 18, 2017  Student
Sex is a double blade sword
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:icontoybunny333:
toybunny333 Featured By Owner Dec 5, 2017  Student General Artist
Sex is life 
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toybunny333 Featured By Owner Edited Dec 13, 2017  Student General Artist
i forgot say without sex life doesnt exist 
sex is important to life
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:iconally-gonzo:
Ally-Gonzo Featured By Owner Nov 14, 2017  Hobbyist Writer
Sex is something God created for a married couple (man & woman) to enjoy together in peace. Not between boyfriend of girlfriend, or anyone else. Sex is beautiful because it came from God.
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:iconlucky-fennec:
Lucky-Fennec Featured By Owner May 10, 2018  New Deviant Student Traditional Artist
Lol deactivated.
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:iconninjadrawsdbz:
NinjaDrawsDBZ Featured By Owner Mar 17, 2018  Student Traditional Artist
God ain't real.
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:iconkayanne21:
kayanne21 Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
If he didn't want people having sex before marriage, why did he even make it possible in the first place?
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:iconbeetale:
beetale Featured By Owner Dec 17, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
gay people can have sex too yknow 
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:iconsweetjazzygirl:
SweetJazzyGirl Featured By Owner Jan 7, 2018  Student Digital Artist
found you
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:iconbeetale:
beetale Featured By Owner Jan 7, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
hi there 
i have controversial opinions 
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:iconsweetjazzygirl:
SweetJazzyGirl Featured By Owner Jan 7, 2018  Student Digital Artist
hellooooo
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:iconpokemonsonicgirl123:
pokemonsonicgirl123 Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
You forgot for all animals too.
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:iconkissasheep:
Kissasheep Featured By Owner Nov 12, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Apparently some people believe that after consensual sex, they are automatically married, I can’t agree nor disagree
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Satanic--Space--Goat Featured By Owner Oct 24, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I agree with you 100%
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:iconalexisyoko:
AlexisYoko Featured By Owner Oct 23, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
You're right! Sex is absolutely normal (except for force sex, of course).
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BlueWolfieART Featured By Owner Mar 22, 2018  Hobbyist General Artist
Force sex = Rape

Wouldn't call it real sex...as sex is suppose to be fun for both parts huah D: <3

Love your comment tho ;;
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OctopiCacti Featured By Owner Sep 27, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
I love all your stamps and stuff and most comment sections have calm people in them that are not sending death threats! so glad to see stuff regarding these topics on deviantart thank you
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:icondanny-doodles:
TRUE
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HomestarTheRunner Featured By Owner Sep 7, 2017
i wish that people would stop saying cringe to furry stuff
like 
somebody posts a furry inflation picture
user: UGHH111 CRUNGG1111
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:iconlittle-rolling-bean:
Little-rolling-bean Featured By Owner Sep 8, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
Telephone exists: "CRINGE!!!"
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:iconhomestartherunner:
HomestarTheRunner Featured By Owner Sep 8, 2017
people who do inflation should mark it as mature or keep it to themselfs
thats sadly the only way they can stop the cringe
or report
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:iconlittle-rolling-bean:
Little-rolling-bean Featured By Owner Sep 9, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
Inflation is super cartoony, it does not need a content
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:iconhomestartherunner:
HomestarTheRunner Featured By Owner Sep 10, 2017
then why does everybody call it fetish art
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:iconlittle-rolling-bean:
Little-rolling-bean Featured By Owner Sep 10, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
Because some people do get off to it. But that does not mean it's worthy for a content.
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:iconhomestartherunner:
HomestarTheRunner Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2017
its like furries
somebody does the bad stuff
somebody thinks that every furry does it
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:iconlittle-rolling-bean:
Little-rolling-bean Featured By Owner Sep 11, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
Yup
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SwordlessLiink Featured By Owner Sep 7, 2017  Student Traditional Artist
(OPINION!!) 

My personal opinion is that s*x is a special bond between two people who wish to take there relationship to a next level. What i find repulsive is people who arent in love who have sex or other subjects like r*pe or violent relationships...
im in my early 20s and im still a virgin, I wish to lose it to someone who i wish to be with for a long time :) 
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:iconlittle-rolling-bean:
Little-rolling-bean Featured By Owner Sep 7, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
I respect your opinion
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:iconswordlessliink:
SwordlessLiink Featured By Owner Sep 7, 2017  Student Traditional Artist
thank you very much :manhug: 
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Shanglon Featured By Owner Sep 4, 2017
I just don't get people who see sex as a gross thing. I even met here on DA a biologist who more than once defined sex as gross, not mention how she even wanted to "rip people's head off" if they draw sex, nudity or porn -_-
Seriously, sex is a wonderful natural element of life and without it we wouldn't even exist. I don't have problems with those who simply don't like it or are not interested but those who demonise it, define it gross and see it as taboo are so close-minded not to understand the vastness, complexity and beauty of life. Same goes for those who live for sex. All extremes are never good.
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