I understand. I just wanted it for reference. I can see how they could have given you a bad vibe.
I watched parts of the videos you linked and part of her Beta Reader Process video. It seems like she does give decent advice though. She's not flaming, she's critiquing. She's blunt and straightforward, but she also does back up her critiques.
so you did pick up on my embedding her vids in recent journals?
Although I find sometimes she makes too much self advertisement in her vids, she does provide some pretty decent insight on writing that, and her vids are funny (I find them funny, they make me laugh... so ).