1. what’s your gender?
demiflux (usually nonbinary, some days im demiboy)
2. what are your pronouns?
he/him or they/them
3. is your family accepting?
ehhhhh,, the part of my family ive come out to kinda is,, but i think their definition of "accepting" is "even tho i dont use your preferred name or pronouns hardly ever i didnt disown you from the family or kick you out of the house"
4. what do you wish you could tell your past self?
dude lmfao stop trying to be really feminine and trying to live your life as feminine as possible, femininity is not for you at all, just be who u wanna be.
5. what is your sexuality?
asexual, bi/panromantic (i use both terms interchangibly bc they basically mean the same thing)
6. favorite color?
mint green, lavender, and/or black
7. sun gay or moon gay?
lmao youre asking the vampire??
8. when did you find out your sexuality?
hmm, my bi awakening was when i watched Grease for the first time in 5th grade and finding both the T-Birds and the Pink Ladies really attractive.
my asexual awakening was when i tried to masturbate but it wasnt a good time. i was like "god is this what sex feels like? that thing that everyone is constantly saying is the best thing in the world? yeah, hard pass."
9. how was your day?
groovy, i saw bats and built the callusses back up on my fingers while playing bass.
10. do you have any gay friends?
the vast majority of my friends are bi. some are ace. some are enby. some are trans. its cool.
11. what’s your favorite hobby?
music. listening to it, making it, playing it, analyzing it, whatever. if its music related i already love it.
12. who’s the best gay icon in your opinion?
dont have an opinion on 'best' so ill give you some of my favorites: simon spier (the book version), macdoesit, troye sivan, and frank iero (i know i know, he hasnt come out or anything and he has a wife and kids but come on,, you cant look at that guy and look at what he did in the MCR days and tell me hes totally straight. ive seen a pic of him sucking some guy's dick. he is Not Straight in my eyes).
13. which pride flags do you like the most design/color wise?
any of the demigender flags, and the pastel bi flag.
14. are you openly out?
yes, i let the whole world know that i dislike the concept of gender and wont subscribe to it, and also that im very gay. except to a portion of my family.
15. are you comfortable with yourself?
usually not, so i act overly flamboyant and confident in my identity in hopes that it helps me come to terms with everything better.
16. bottom or top?
17. femme or butch?
butch lesbians always have and always will make my bi heart fuckin flutter. (not to say femme lesbians arent fuckin AMAZING either. i love all yall. mwah.)
18. do you bind?
yep, i own one (1) gc2b binder and its good. its hard to get totally flat when you had d-cups when you first started binding tho.
19. do you shave?
20. if you could date anyone you wanted, who would it be?
without any limits on age, sexuality, marital status, whether or not they're real, or living status?
...geoff wigington. no, any of the parx boys. but geoff seems like the sweetest and the softest and the purest. heres to hoping i get to hug him on july 1st.
21. do you have a partner (s)?
22. describe your partner (s)?
hes an absolute dork and he lives in australia and he loves waterparks and mcr as much as i do. i love him so fuckin much.
23. have you ever dated anyone of the same gender?
i.. uh... what constitutes as "same gender" in my case
24. anyone of another gender?
okay, lemme just clear this all up: while identifying as female i dated one (1) str8 white boy and one female-identified (at the time) person. after that i have my current boyfriend, whos also demiflux
25. pastel gay or goth gay?
pastel. i was tempted to say 'goth' but then i realized the goth im thinking about is actually punk rock.
26. favorite dad in dream daddies?
27. tell me a random fact about yourself?
i refer to myself as a bat a lot. it doesnt really mean much, just like,, in contexts like "im the dumbest bat you'll ever meet" or "im a short lil bat." i lov this emoticon: (㇏(•̀ᵥᵥ•́)ノ). and ryan seaman responded to my tweet once, and thats the most interaction ive ever had with a Famous Band Person
28. do you own any pride flags/merch?
yep, i have a full-sized enby flag, a little gay flag, a pin with "they/them" on it, a rainbow colorado rockies lanyard, a rainbow denver comic con pin, a rainbow earcuff, two rainbow chokers, and a clip-on badge that says "i identify as nonbinary, please ask me for my pronouns"
29. have you ever been to a pride parade?
yeah!! i actually went to my first one this year, i got to march in it and i strained my voice from shouting too much ;w;
30. any advice to someone who isn’t out or who is exploring themselves?
its okay to experiment and try to find yourself. its okay to not know. its okay to not let anyone else know. its okay for things to change. you are the only person who knows yourself best. gender is fluid. sexuality is fluid. dont feel like you have to know everything right away. dont feel like you have to use a label. dont feel like you have to come out. i love you, you're awesome.