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What should I do: 

81%
13 deviants said Move to another state, leave your family, keep studying there with help of other relatives until the situation is better.
19%
3 deviants said Drop out from school to work and earn money in order to be able to pay for my education some other time.

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:iconnovvaik:
Novvaik Featured By Owner Jan 19, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Whatever you do, don't drop out of school. Study what you need to go far in your life and get a career doing what you know and love to support yourself. Whatever you do, don't give up hope or limit yourself by pessimism, take every opportunity you can and take everything into consideration, I don't question your desicion making.
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Novvaik Featured By Owner Jan 18, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
What is your delema? I don't know how to help you unless I know what is going on, all I can say is to truely and legitamately evaluate your situation and don't do anything quickly or irrationally. This sounds like a pretty big decision that can't be answered by a poll on DA.
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Kim-SukLey Featured By Owner Jan 18, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Yes, it's a really big decision. I am stuck only between those two options.

Here's what's happening:
My family doesn't have money. My mom lost her job and my father doesn't earn enough money. I go to the University, but I cannot afford it anymore due to the situation. Also, my brother is in the 7th grade, so he needs to buy stuff too. In addition, we pay rent for this little department, water, electricity, etc. also internet connection (wich I could't pay right now, so I don't have internet. I'm getting signal from some other place)
If I move to another state, I will live with my mother's family, and hopefully my brother and her will go there too.
Here we have no family, and my father is not a good person, but there are still things that have to be done here, mostly paper work that's going to take some time :/

So, it would appear that leaving is a good idea, but that other state is really dangerous, there's lots of crime, plus it's drug polluted.
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cakebutton Featured By Owner Jan 17, 2012  Student General Artist
Gahh...Can't pick option 1 or 2 :(
Go where your gut tells you to,
Best of luck :heart:
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norryman Featured By Owner Jan 17, 2012
I'm nearly done with my studies to become a teacher french and dutch.
It breaks my heart to hear such stories.
The most important thing is that you don't give up, Shawn! Chase your dreams!
Usually, each school has some kind of funds that might help you. Perhaps you should get some information on that.
If the going gets too tough, you could try to get a little job for the weekends. Ask some of your schoolmates about it. Maybe they can help you get in touch with someone?
Just don't give up!
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Juanikid Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2012  Student Digital Artist
uuuu =_= que mal! D: bueno... yo digo que a menos que realmente haya alguien que necesite de ti en tu familia, tomes la opción A si no, creo que lo mejor es la opción B, porque no es justo que te atores por falta de dinero :/

si necesitas algo aqui ando! :) animo!
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Akuma-Nushi Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2012
I would say neither but...
I can't decided which one is better.....
I wanna be an English Teacher....
If I had to choose between them...
I would do option 2, but that's just because
My family is bad.
: \
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:iconkim-sukley:
Kim-SukLey Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Yeah, they are both crappy options. Sadly, I'm stuck between them.
I'm studying to be a languages teacher, the only fucked up part is that I can't pay anymore... it's to much money. If it wasn't for that, I'd keep doing what I do already :(
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Akuma-Nushi Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2012
Have you talked to your family about it yet?
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Kim-SukLey Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Yes, I have. I just have to decide this within the next week. They already know these are the options I have, and it's sad because it is not because of me, it's because of the circumstances that are happening. I wish a miracle popped out of somewhere.
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Akuma-Nushi Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2012
: < Man, I wish you luck.
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NeonKitsune16 Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
well it depends on what u want to do for the rest of ur life. Teachers tell me that to travel u learn a lot and u get rounded better. Im in college now and will be heading for my masters which will have to be out of New York. Its a little nerve racking but I have to do it for my dream.

What do u want to do what is ur goal?
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Kim-SukLey Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I don't want neither of those things.
I'm studying to be a languages teacher at my University, the thing is a don't have money.
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NeonKitsune16 Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
u do get financial aid and other programs you have to research some programs im part of a few
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Kim-SukLey Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
It's really hard to get any financial help here. That's why I'm stuck between those two options.
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NeonKitsune16 Featured By Owner Jan 16, 2012  Hobbyist Digital Artist
oh my well i know it is hard but pick a path u wanna step forward to. Follow ur heart thats what i always say
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