well basically I made them a sketch and they proceeded to rub out and doodle over it posting it in sta.sh (they gave me the link). This was even for a commission I feel slightly offended they thought it was okay to scribble over it and say, "this is what I want"
Stash is kinda private, so if it's not public and their not claiming credit it's not really theft but I can see the offense part.
Sometimes when people show me a sketch of a commission I'll edit a line to give a visual of something for when they do the line, color, shading and so on. I'm not really sure about the case here since I don't know the picture. You can send me a private link to the image, unless you don't want to "point fingers" which is understandable.
In sta.sh or not it's not their work to have there, that's my point and most who I've shown say it's theft.
I can send it you via note as not to draw a million eyes on it, I've already asked them to remove it. I feel slightly offended and as if my work isn't good enough when people edit it especially as they erased part of it and added on bits and told me that that is what they wanted it to look like.
I've asked them to as politely as possible, I don't think I could be nicer about it even if I tried. I've been doing commissions none stop for about a year if not longer and I always have some kind of problem. People whining about how long I take asking for refunds (when I don't do refunds and it says that on my FAQ) or just them rushing me.