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What my life has become by julvett What my life has become by julvett
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iMetalHeava Featured By Owner Aug 22, 2016  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
This is my life :(
CaptainRender Featured By Owner Sep 24, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I would really like to meet you some day. Lol.
CaptainofVingilot Featured By Owner Jun 1, 2015  Hobbyist Writer
Though my romantic experience suggests that my advice will be worse than useless, perhaps telling him will give you some measure of closure, at least?
zclear11 Featured By Owner Feb 13, 2015
I know how that feels, I have recently started crushing on this guy I sit next to in my art class and became less talkative in that class due to him being on a French exchange. when he got back I was going to confess my feelings for him when he came in and told everyone how he now has a French girlfriend called clemance. I am currently eating a tub of ben and jerry's cookie dough ice cream trying to find some self esteem and to stop moping like Myrtle and to focus on my studies. not going to well at the moment...
immygrace Featured By Owner Jul 16, 2014
honey at least the guy you luv is real! imagine being completely in love with a fictional character who is perfect for someone else and you have no chance of him ever luvin you back?

* eyes widen and shakes head at ones self in realisation * Damn... I have got it bad... also all this fanfiction is not helping either, especially till three in the morning...I think I need help actually.
AmnaTea Featured By Owner Oct 31, 2016  Hobbyist
Same here XD
princess0kitty Featured By Owner Aug 17, 2015  Student Traditional Artist
I know that feel bro ( damn Siris )
julvett Featured By Owner Jul 21, 2014
I have as good a chance with him as a fictional character. (Out of curiosity, who is the fictional character?)
artistbabe1984 Featured By Owner Jun 26, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
I feel your pain. Men suck. Cute drawing though :) 
MovieMonkey Featured By Owner Aug 16, 2014  Hobbyist Filmographer
"Men suck".
Fioleeluvr Featured By Owner Jun 25, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I know how you feel every time I see him with her, I just feel like crap, for lack of a better term.
daytriper23 Featured By Owner Jun 23, 2014
I know how you feel.  Every time he says her name I cringe inside..
LucianAmpersandDerpy Featured By Owner Jun 23, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
n'aw :/
i'm sorry
Ruiku-Sama Featured By Owner Jun 23, 2014
I second the comment from Art-loving-Fairybug - just take the plunge & tell him before it's too late. Unless you'd rather have him as a friend than not at all - if you tell him how you feel, it's likely that you may make your friendship awkward (at least for a while, but maybe your dynamic will change dramatically). You can either move on (difficult though I know that to be!), or risk telling him. All I know is that obsessions seldom lead to happiness. The fantasy is likely better than the reality. Good luck girl!!
julvett Featured By Owner Jun 23, 2014
Thanks for the advice. It's a tough situation in that he's already been living with this girl, they've been together over 7 years, there's no way he'd leave her, especially not for me. So there's no point in taking the risk and telling him, but it makes it all the more frustrating.
CaptainofVingilot Featured By Owner Jul 7, 2014  Hobbyist Writer
 Be honest with him, if only to get it off your chest. Or you might turn into Snape.
Swanbreeze Featured By Owner May 29, 2015
lol. Snape.
sorry, this is not a funny situation.
Ruiku-Sama Featured By Owner Jun 25, 2014
I understand - it must be so frustrating and difficult. It's clear from your message that you realise that he's a lost cause - so why continue to torture yourself over him? I don't know you personally of course, but you seem like an expressive, interesting, and funny person - your art testifies to that. You have a lot going for you, and you will find happiness with someone who appreciates you, even though you probably can't imagine someone else right now. Try and consciously limit the time you spend thinking about him, doing him-related things on facebook, etc. - you'll be amazed at how quickly it becomes habit to think about it less, and it will really help you move on. Be strong! You can do it :)
Nahemii Featured By Owner Jun 23, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
If you were from germany, i would fear you're talking about me xD

Im also engaged, have a boyfriend for over 6 years and a bad fashion-taste.

I really dont know how such guys would feel about a love confession. Maybe everything gets more awkward...

Yeah ... its better not to tell him ...
goldenliar1 Featured By Owner Jun 5, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
It will get better.
Maybe he's a dork who does not know how awesome you are!
Yeah, he's  a dork.
UnreasonableReasons Featured By Owner May 24, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
This is my life.
Art-loving-Fairybug Featured By Owner May 23, 2014  Hobbyist Writer
I say this in full knowledge that it's much easier said than done: you should tell him, before it's too late! Better to know where you stand (even if he turns you down, but especially if he feels the same way) than to always wonder 'what if'. You have nothing to lose, and everything to gain. I beg you, don't let him slip away without a fight! 
JoeTisCool Featured By Owner Apr 19, 2014
Girl.. I've been there.. lol 
avadaxxxkedavra Featured By Owner Mar 28, 2014
awwww im so sorry :(
Fatecaster Featured By Owner Mar 19, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
My life = here. yup ><
pepperh2o Featured By Owner Mar 18, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
I understand so hard D:
Roxora419 Featured By Owner Mar 16, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
My condolences. 
uppuN Featured By Owner Mar 16, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I feel u. Been there... -_-
Channini Featured By Owner Mar 15, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Oh wow, that makes you the girl version of Snape. That's stinky.
julvett Featured By Owner Mar 18, 2014
Thanks :salute:
bleachmyhands Featured By Owner Mar 15, 2014
This is epic. I'm sure every girl has done this at least once (or a everyday ;) )
SkullwingsSeventh Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2014
Well your a very beautiful woman, whom I'm sure has a charming personality I'm sure you'll find someone.
SkullwingsSeventh Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2014
Her shoes are dumb lol
Ze3kyB0mb Featured By Owner Mar 11, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
What WAS her fashion choice?
MarkSolus Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2014
Uhhh yeah...... Women, am I right?
zamaranth Featured By Owner Mar 8, 2014  Student General Artist
Very relatable.  We've all been there is some different way or another, haha.
musicLuv1985 Featured By Owner Mar 8, 2014  Student Writer
Don't torture yourself about what could've been. And don't creep on her Facebook , it won't help your feelings. You should boycott Facebook for the time being. You might have lost the guy but you got your independence. Embrace the freedom of checking out guys without restraint! 
Owlgirl101 Featured By Owner Feb 24, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
julvett Featured By Owner Mar 15, 2014
I've had that freedom for far longer than I ever wanted :(
ShadowbladeRavyn Featured By Owner May 23, 2014
I hear ya.
b-ella-13 Featured By Owner Mar 8, 2014
Oh darling, I've been there. In my case it was my best friend and his needlessly perfect angel of a girlfriend. I spent an embarrassing amount of time on her Facebook page, looking for something, anything, that would let me knock her of her stupid shiny perfect pedestal of talent and kindness. And then I realized guys are dumb and I'd rather watch Disney movies and eat ice cream. I still hate seeing them together, but at least I know I have about a dozen Disney princes and a tub of Ben & Jerry's waiting for me when it becomes too much to deal with. 
HollyCassadine87 Featured By Owner Mar 7, 2014
I know exactly how you feel. Love sucks. I found my guy's livejournal and it was nothing but little love notes to his fiancee. It killed me.

But they called it off after a year of being engaged to each other (I guess she fell out of love with him, probably because she was never really in love with him to begin with). So there's still hope, right? (Not that I would know. He still doesn't seem very interested in me no matter how well I treat him).

Love just sucks.    
AnteaArt Featured By Owner Mar 7, 2014
You'll find someone better, someone who appreciates your good taste in shoes.
spitfiresdad16 Featured By Owner Mar 7, 2014  Hobbyist Writer
I've been there with the guy who married my crush. -_- It's painful.
PercyJacksonsAwesome Featured By Owner Mar 7, 2014  Hobbyist
her shoes are dumb
TexasPyro23 Featured By Owner Mar 6, 2014
you are NOT alone here :P
IthilwenTheNinjette Featured By Owner Mar 6, 2014
Don't worry, I've done this too. I think it's a natural response. I hope things get better soon!
Miss-Maf Featured By Owner Mar 6, 2014
Ah man, I'm so sorry. ):

Perhaps it's from growing up in Northern America, but people have a tendency to shrug off lost crushes/break-ups/divorces/anything relating to relationships, saying that 'so-and-so is stronger than that and it really doesn't matter that much in the long run'. But in my experience, relationships DO impact a person, and it is hard. Much harder than anyone will ever give you credit for. The heart and mind are not organs to trifle with. These things hurt, and it's easy to get lost in the hurt. 

I hope that it gets easier, and don't think negatively of yourself, because that's unfair to you. And I've always found that throwing myself into something productive makes the time pass easier. Also, lots of Mythbusters, if you're into those types of shows. (: 

Good luck, you have a lot of cyberpeople sending happy wishes your way! 

(And on a side note, the animation and art is very well done! I've always loved your style of people.)
MysteriousMissSirius Featured By Owner Mar 6, 2014
I love the moving parts about this image. :D
Also I feel you, that sucks -_-
MyriamEH Featured By Owner Mar 6, 2014  Hobbyist Writer
O, you poor thing. Don't worry, she's probably not even half the woman you are! (And you're totally gonna have the guy of your dreams, like my wise grandma always says: just have patience!)
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