"Breaking the Ice can be awkward. But never fear, 'Nami is here!"

     The purpose of Breaking the Ice is to start relationships, whether they be platonic or romantic.
In Tōrōgakure, we know it's not always easy make new friends, but lady Nami here to help you out!
There's no shortage of Villagers who are out there looking for friends, dates, lovers, rivals or foes.
But if you sign up your Characters, we'll match you up with other characters with similar interests!~
What you do with that is up to you, but it's a great way to find friends, dates and form lasting bonds!

Official Relationship Icon Legend:
     💮 = Friendship 
👍 Platonic Bonds. 
     💕 = Romantic / 💋 Intimate Bonds. 
     💢 = Rivalries / 💀 Negative Bonds.
     💬 = Inspiration 🎓 Mentor Bonds. 

List of Known Relationships and Bonds:
     − Asukai Shinya & Asukai Hisako are quietly dating as of arc 19.
     − Hitoyo 
Suzu  and Kitsune Yuki are 💕 Happily Married.
     − Kota Inugami and Sakana Natsu are in a 💕 Relationship. 
     − Kitsune Kokoro and Chouyou Kaname are in a 💕 Relationship. 
     − Tsutakana Kyo and Tsutakana Manami are 💕 Married.
     − Asukai Michio and Shirogane Midori  are 💕 Married.
     − Asukai Naoto and Hitoyo Akira  are in a 💕 Relationship. 
     − Koizumi Eri and Minawa Ren are 💕 Dating
     − Kitsune Kohaku and  Hitoyo Honoka are 💕 Dating.
     − Asukai Kaoru and Aoki Tamie are 💕 Dating.
     − Kurosawa Ryuunosuke and Shirogane Aya are 💕 Dating.
     − Kitsune Teruo and Shirogane Mirai are 💕 Dating. 
     − Asukai Masami has a one sided 💕 Crush on Asukai Sougen.
     − Yuudai Akihiko is 💢 Rivals with Ryota and Kaito and is 💕 Dating Yamita Miki.
     − Fukao Masumi and Takagama Kioshi are 💢 Respectful Rivals.
     − Shirogane Souta has a one sided 💢 Rivalry toward Asukai Shinya!
     − Chouyou Kaname  has a deeply rooted, one sided 💀 Dislike towards Miki Yamita.
     − Asukai Hisako is a Mentor 🎓 to Asukai Hanabi

Characters Currently looking for Bonds:

     − Aoki Saki is looking for a 💢 Rival, and a 💕 Relationship.
     − Aoki Yoshi is looking for 💮 Friends and 💢 Rivalries and non-committal 💕 Relationships.
     − Asukai Hiyori is a motherly, friendly woman looking for a 💕 Committed Lover and 💮 Friends.
     − Asukai Shinya is looking for 💮 Friends, 💕 Dates, 💋 Relationships, and 💢 Worthy Rivals.
     − Asukai Kaoru is looking for 🎓 Mentors mostly💮 Friends and 💢 Worthy Rivals.
     − Hibiki Izanami is looking for 💮 Friends to share secrets with and a 🎓 Mentor!
     − Hibiki Takumi is a flirtatious homosexual with a pessimistic outlook looking for 💢 Rivals and 💋 Dates.
     − Hitoyo Etsuko is bisexual and looking for a 💕 Lover, 💢 Rival and 💀 Negative Bonds with Dragons.
     − Hitoyo Konobu is looking for a 💕 Cuddly Relationship with someone easygoing.
     − Hitoyo Masashi is looking for 💮 Friends, 💢 Friendly Rivals and 💀 Negative Bonds with Dragons.
     − Hitoyo Ryota is looking for a 👍 Platonic Bonds, and a 💕 Relationship (18+ Hitoyo Girls Preferred)
     − Hitoyo Seiji is homosexual and looking for a 💕 Relationship.
     − Kitsune Anri is looking for 💮 Friends and 💢 Worthy Rivals who don't take offense easily.
     − Kitsune Akari is looking for 💮 Friends, 💢 Rivals and 💀 Negative Bonds. She is open to 💋 flirting.
     − Kitsune Hakuzo is looking for 💮 Friends, 💋 Relationships, 💢 Rivals and 💀 Negative Bonds.
     − Kitsune Kagura is looking for 💮Friends, 💢Rivals and 🎓Mentors! 💕Romantic is possible, but she is only 16.
     − Kitsune Kohaku is looking for 💮 Friends, 💢 Rivals and 💕 Date a girl his own age, preferably Kitsune or Hitoyo.
     − Kurosawa Ryuunosuke is looking for 💮 Friends, 💢 Rivals and 💀 Negative Bonds.
     − Minawa Tadashi is looking for a 💢 Rival to match his vain, jerk-like personality.
     − Shirogane Azami is looking for 💮 = Friends,  💕 / 💋 Relationships, 💢 = Rivals and 💀 Negative Bonds.
     − Shirogane Reika is looking for 💮 Friends, 💢 Past Rivals and 💕 Lesbian crushes.
     − Takagama Kioshi is a socially inept 16 year old looking for patient and tolerant 💮 Friends.
     − Uranami Ame is looking for a 💕 Relationship with diligent and serious man.
     − Uranami Nanase is looking for a 💮 Friends and a 💕 Serious Relationship.

     To sign up and get more bonds, comment below with your villagers and what you're looking for.
Introduce yourself and your characters a little bit, and what types of relationships they are open to.
Be sure to clarify what is within reason, and what would be out of character or off limits. Example:
Asukai Shinya by TraceofHatred
This is Asukai Shinya, he is confident and charming, 
and is generally carefree and unconcerned. 
He comes off as very forward and flirtatious and says what he thinks, but isn't easily impressed. 
However, his lack of filter may also make him seem blunt or even apathetic and inconsiderate.

He is looking to make 
💮 Friends, but is also interested in dating and non-committal 💕 Romance.
Because of his status as the top of his class in his specialty, he is also open to 
🎓 Mentor Bonds.
But because of his forward, blunt comments, he may also attract 💢 Rivals or 💀 Negative Bonds."
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Jinxaroni Featured By Owner Oct 2, 2018
Asukai Shinya & Asukai Hisako are quietly dating as of arc 19.

TraceofHatred Approve and make me Facebook official, bish. 8v
Zyea Featured By Owner May 4, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Okay but for real this time Kitsune Teruo and Shirogane Mirai are in a relationship :>

luluopp plz confirm ;>
kiippon Featured By Owner May 7, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Zyea Featured By Owner May 7, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
luluopp Featured By Owner May 4, 2018  Student General Artist
Confirmed :heart:
Zyea Featured By Owner May 4, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
PenelopeJadewing Featured By Owner Apr 17, 2018  Professional Digital Artist
[TG] Profile - Hitoyo Jukichi by PenelopeJadewing  

Hitoyo Jukichi is a generally polite, but equally deadpan and lazy person who's strongest belief is that the only things worth committing to in life are the amusing ones. Normal things/mediocrity bore him, and if you start a conversation with him, you better be ready for a long, random ride. He will question everything you say just because it's fun to think about things. Sometimes this leads to an intellectual adventure. Other times, it's just plain depressing. You can't always tell when he's being serious or joking, but he sure can snark up a storm.

He is looking for 💮 Friends or 👍 Platonic Bonds who can entertain him without much effort on his part, but is also lowkey searching for some 💬 Inspiration and purpose in life. He is also open to an 💋 Intimate relationship with a special woman who doesn't have high hopes on the Romantic side of things. Prefers the idea of a good friend with benefits, because he's not very... attuned to romance. :V And while  💢 Rivalries and 💀 Negative Bonds take far too much unnecessary effort in his opinion, his noncommittal, smarter-than-you attitude can easily draw both.
Jaz-Saxx Featured By Owner Apr 17, 2018  Hobbyist General Artist
TG: Shirogane Yashi - 1263 by Jaz-Saxx
Shirogane Yashi is a dedicated and hardworking hopeless romantic. He has a natural proclivity towards taking care of others and loves to make pretty girls smile. However, while he conducts himself in a very proper and princely manner much of the time, he often has a gloomy air about him. Under the surface he is a rather intense person with many dark thoughts that he tends to dwell on, having a fixation on tragic romance and tending to romanticize his own sadness and unhealthy behaviors.

I'm looking for previous 💕 = Romantic / 💋 Intimate Bonds for him. He needs some exes, amicable, from hell, and anything in between
luluopp Featured By Owner Apr 5, 2018  Student General Artist
Kitsune Teruo and Shirogane Mirai are good 💮 = Friendship!

pls confirm ele ;> Zyea  
( ͡~ ͜ʖ ͡°)
Zyea Featured By Owner Apr 5, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Confirmed ;>
TraceofHatred Featured By Owner Edited Apr 2, 2018  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm going to be getting back into Nobuo Missions with Exams coming up, so I figured I'd throw him in the Bonds forum.

Nobuo Shirogane by TraceofHatred

Hobbies: Playing Shōgi, Gardening (specifically flowers), Reading Poetry, Abstract Painting, making things.

Likes: Roses, Lucid Dreaming, The Colour Red, Poetry, Artwork, Blood, Plotting and Scheming, Mystery, 
Secrets, Games of Strategy, Organization and Cleanliness, Peace and Quiet, Autumn, Ladybugs, Ladies.

Dislikes: Rudeness, People who Speak out of line, Men who think highly of themselves, Indecision, Noise,
overconfidence, Morons, Being touched, Compliments, Rats, Tools and anyone weak enough to use them.

In a Nutshell: Nobuo is a shy, socially awkward teen who is bit of a pushover with wholesome intentions.
In general he is humble, polite, objective, restrained, logical, calculating, patient, hardworking and economic.
He is a Loyalist to the Shirogane and has been raised with the mentality that he is simply a tool of the clan,
to the point he expresses emotions poorly and may come off as apathetic to his own safety, and to others.

     − His older Sibling is Shirogane Azami 💮
     − His Team mates are Kitsune Akari 💢 and Kitsune Hakuzo 💢 

     Nobuo is looking to make some more 💮 Friendships, as he has very few and none which are not antagonistic.
In general he is very timid so he doesn't go out of his way to make them, nor does he really deem them necessary,
though the few who have persisted consider him an invaluable ally, albeit sometimes a bit strange of a person.

     Nobuo is extremely quick to form 
💀 Negative Bonds with people who show little respect to him or his clan,
though he maintains good control of himself, he holds grudges if he feels slighted. He rarely forgives, or forgets.

     Nobuo is open to forming 🎓 Mentor Bonds with anyone on the condition that the person is equally intelligent,
and that there is something he can learn from them that is relevant to his own abilities or interests. Otherwise, no. 
However he has on multiple occasions taught others his own interests, and is generally a very informative teacher.

     Nobuo faces extreme pressure to continue the 
Shirogane Bloodline so 💕 Romantic Bonds are not off the table.
However, as mentioned above he is very socially awkward and not terribly emotional unless it is brought out of him,
so any such development would be a gradual one, if any 
 Shirogane Preference, but Non−clan is not an option.
patty-batty Featured By Owner Apr 4, 2018  Hobbyist
Oh Nobuo dearling, I had you recommanded as platonic bond for Akane, notice me already :v
TraceofHatred Featured By Owner Apr 4, 2018  Hobbyist General Artist
He has noticed you :v But he's always here with his anxiety.
patty-batty Featured By Owner Apr 4, 2018  Hobbyist
Your first kiss belongs to me forever 💋
Jinxaroni Featured By Owner Apr 6, 2018

patty-batty Featured By Owner Apr 6, 2018  Hobbyist
ShadowHachia Featured By Owner Apr 4, 2018  Student General Artist
Nobou might get along with Yoshi :0 He's pretty even paced compared to Kohaku and Keiichi who are kinda unique xD
Though seeing as the Kitsune and Shirogane get along, we could try Kohaku and Nobou though Kohaku's pretty loud and kind of obnoxious xD Keiichi might be good for a negative bond maybe? He's kinda blunt for the most part but idk where it might go :0
TraceofHatred Featured By Owner Apr 4, 2018  Hobbyist General Artist
I'm down dude, message me any time. :v
Zyea Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Miri will read poetry with you Nobuo o/ she's pretty timid too but she's friendly. She also enjoys art :v
TraceofHatred Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2018  Hobbyist General Artist
If they're both timid this will be difficult, but it seems they have a lot in common and I am always looking for more Shirogane bonds e v e
Zyea Featured By Owner Apr 3, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
She’s definitely shy but friendly enough that it usually isn’t too much of an issue ;0; and she gets along best with Shirogane so o/ I’m up for it anytime man

But definitely have a lot in common so that’s a good start~
TraceofHatred Featured By Owner Apr 4, 2018  Hobbyist General Artist
Funny enough Nobuo gets along best with Shirogane too

Bruh, throw a harpoon into my side at any time :v I am completely free.
Zyea Featured By Owner Apr 4, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
That works out well then 8V

You know I will :V I’m coming for ya nobuo I wanna meet my clan plz
TraceofHatred Featured By Owner Apr 4, 2018  Hobbyist General Artist
I am excited :v He is afraid.
Zyea Featured By Owner Apr 4, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Mood :v
Miris not afraid she’s just gonna throw books to him like have you read this one???
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luluopp Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2018  Student General Artist
post ts teruo may be friend material as he's pretty chill and probably feels the need to apologize for Kari and Kuzo :u plus he likes poetry and art as well!
TraceofHatred Featured By Owner Apr 2, 2018  Hobbyist General Artist
They will most likely meet at some inevitable time, I am very okay with this. :v
Zyea Featured By Owner Mar 17, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
[TG] Shirogane Mirai by Zyea

Shirogane Mirai is looking for  💕 = Romantic / 💋 Intimate Bonds but prefers they wouldn't be flings ;v;
As someone who admires intelligence and skill, 
  💬 = Inspiration 🎓 Mentor Bonds would be appreciated as well as 👍 Platonic Bonds. Mirai is very shy and finds it hard to communicate/ articulate her feelings at times, but once she warms up to you will probably try to spoil you. She is generally calm and collected about most situations. She enjoys shoving flowers in people's hair if she likes them :v
luluopp Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2018  Student General Artist
Bond recommendations for Mirai

💕 = Romantic / 💋 Intimate Bonds  - Teruo//no let me think of some others -  maybe Jinta or Souta, 
 💬 = Inspiration 🎓 Mentor Bonds - Aya if she isn't already bonded with her, Tokara maybe, Hinoiri maybe
💮 = Friendship 👍 Platonic Bonds -Kasumi, Akimitsu, Tamie, 

take my recs with a grain of salt :u just throwing some out there for ya
Zyea Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2018  Hobbyist Digital Artist
;> winks at ur son tho

Thank you :v i appreciate these reqs <3 time to reach for aya more +O+
luluopp Featured By Owner Feb 25, 2018  Student General Artist
Also since I didn't see them up there

Aya and Ryuu are dating ;u;

confirm pls ;u; b
Jinxaroni Featured By Owner Feb 25, 2018
SuzakuTrip Featured By Owner Feb 25, 2018
luluopp Featured By Owner Feb 25, 2018  Student General Artist
1263 KitsuneTeruo by luluopp  

Kitsune Teruo is looking for  💕 = Romantic / 💋 Intimate Bonds and  💬 = Inspiration 🎓 Mentor Bonds. 

Teruo is a chill flirt looking for past relationships or current ones (could be flings or romantic), he likes to play music and woo the ladies with his incredible stories and songs!

He is also looking for inspirations or others to mentor ( probably for something dumb like music)

Fouffey Featured By Owner Feb 14, 2018
super duper belated totally thought I did this already
but Asukai Kaoru and Aoki Tamie be dating 

TG - Tamie Aoki, Official Profile    [TG] Profile - Asukai Kaoru
Idrisil Featured By Owner Dec 6, 2017
Asukai Masami has a 💕 crush on Asukai Sougen
Idrisil Featured By Owner Dec 3, 2017
Asukai Masami by Idrisil
Asukai Masami is an attention-seeking and competitive person. She's loud and prefers to have the spotlight on her. She's also rather blunt and honest.

She's looking for rivals 💢 to compete with, but isn't against them also being her friends 💮. She's also looking for people interested in casual relationships and intimacy 💋. Secretly though, she wants a 💕 Romantic relationship with someone who is kind and cares about her.
XavierSteelarm Featured By Owner Edited Oct 23, 2017  Student Digital Artist
Hayato Muneyasu App by XavierSteelarm
Hayato is a friendly Dude who wants to make friends with all the people and eventually find someone to love, mainly someone who puts up with his habit of him picking up feathers he sees who knows.

Hayato is looking for 
💮 Friends and 👍 Platonic Bonds: because he wants to be friends with everybody
💕 = Romantic:  because he wants someone to love ((woman only))
secretly also wants 💋 Intimate Bonds: ...because well he a dude
Jinxaroni Featured By Owner Oct 23, 2017
Shirogane Souta has a one sided 💢 Rivalry toward Asukai Shinya!

TraceofHatred plis confirm.
TraceofHatred Featured By Owner Oct 25, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
ShadowHachia Featured By Owner Oct 9, 2017  Student General Artist
Could I change Kohaku's bond info since I feel it's kinda outdated? :0

If so, I'd like it to be updated with:
Looking for 💢 rivals & 💀 Negative Bonds with people who either don't get along with the Kitsune Clan, clans in general, or anyone against the Fox Faction and in the incarnations its had so far. 
As far as the rivalry goes, it can be friendly or not, I'm free to that option really but I'm really interested in him trying to develop himself a bit more >T Gotta find a way to impress his fam and all.
He's also looking for a
 🎓 Mentor as well as 💬 Inspirations to look up to :'D Either of these can be from the Kitsune Clan, his friends, or even the specialities he's in/interested in :'D

I also wanna throw Keiichi in here //cracks knuckles

TG: Keiichi Hashimoto [Timeskip | Arc 16 - ] by ShadowHachia
Keiichi is a hard headed individual who's keen on impressing Prince Fubuki. He's a perfectionist, a bit of a germaphobe, and has a hard time getting along with people since he's just a bit judgey. He tends to keep to himself for the most part though, but he wants to try and change his opinion on Torogakure for the sake of his people. However, old habits do die hard :u

Keiichi is looking for 💮 Friends & 👍 Platonic Bonds. As well as 💢 Rivalries & 💀 Negative Bonds.
SuzakuTrip Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2017
Hisako is officially Hanabi's mentor
luluopp Featured By Owner Oct 3, 2017  Student General Artist
this is so cute ;o; 
Jinxaroni Featured By Owner Oct 1, 2017
I second this
nyahsart Featured By Owner Aug 2, 2017  Professional General Artist
I don't remember if I did this or not TwT

HLV Ryoko Aoki by nyahsart  

This Is Ryoko! She is a hyper-active knuckle-head with a few problematic personal issues, shes generally quiet when you first meet her but once ya get to know her shes a whole world of fun. She enjoys exploring Art, Nature and plain training or fighting! She wants to meet people but doesn't know how to go about it~

 💮 = Friendship and 👍 Platonic Bonds: Everyone needs a friends or that one really good friend 
 💢 = Rivalries: Someone needs to be there to make this knuckle-head try her best!
 💕 = Romantic and 💋 Intimate Bonds: every girl dreams of it even this hermit
MiyuKyuu Featured By Owner Jul 22, 2017  Hobbyist Photographer
idk if i have done this before but i gotta get my bby more active ;v;/
so here u go :meow:

[ TG ] Kouki Hitoyo by MiyuKyuu

Kouki or Kou for sure loves making tea and talk about nature. He will appear as a shy guy at first but as soon as he gets to know the person he will be more open. He could get flustered with pet names or if his hair is touch(cat like i know XD) 

His looking to make 💮 friends 👍 Platonic Bonds. 
     💕 = Romantic / 💋 Intimate Bonds academy crushes maybe also interested in dating if he finds the right girl or guy :heart: but preferably girls since i did want him to leave legacy lol XD
     💢 = Rivalries / 💀 Negative Bonds. 
     💬 = Inspiration 🎓 Mentor Bonds. 

Jinxaroni Featured By Owner Apr 11, 2017
[TG] Asukai Hisako by Jinxaroni
 Mostly friendly and polite, Hisako has a rather easy time getting along with others. She enjoys different personalities to her own and enjoys the company others bring, but has a hard time opening up to many people. 

💮 = Friendship 👍 Platonic Bonds. Mostly looking to be frands, yo. 8I
Open to  💕 Romantic/dating but doesn't open up easy.   
Her bluntness could gain her 💢 = Rivalries or 💀 Negative Bonds. 
💬 = Inspiration 🎓 Mentor Bonds are welcome also. >OOO
Zyea Featured By Owner Mar 30, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
[TG] Saori Asukai by Zyea

This is Asukai Saori, she's very friendly but stubborn and hot-headed. While generally pretty confident, she is sometimes self-conscious about her fighting ability. She tries to become friends with everyone and tries to stay neutral towards clan and faction tensions, though realizes these can become impossible tasks very quickly. She is also very competitive when she finds someone of similar skill as herself.

She is looking to make 
💮 Friends, but is also interested in dating and 💕 Romance. She would also be open to friendly 💢 Rivals.
👍 Platonic Bonds are also a plus.
kiippon Featured By Owner Mar 30, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Bond recommendations for Saori
Tsutakana Manami for 👍 Platonic or 💮 Friendship bonds
Minawa Koshi for 
💮 Friendship or 💢 Rivalry bonds
Hibiki Isuru for 
💮 Friendship or possible 💕 Romance bonds
Jinxaroni Featured By Owner Mar 16, 2017
  [TG] Shirogane Souta by Jinxaroni
Enjoys dicking around and not taking life too serious. :I Has a strong love for foods and odd people. 

  💮 = Friendship 👍 Platonic Bonds 
  💕 = Romantic / 💋 Intimate Bonds. Looking for academy crushes (one sided on Souta's part) dates pre and but mostly post timeskip. Maybe a gurl that could lead up to meaning more to Souta than others if they're willing to wait a while for him to come to terms with his issues. 
  💢 = Rivalries / 💀 Negative Bonds. Souta would most likely get under peoples skin who are uptight and super formal? 
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