My dear friend and former employee, Sehra, asked me [via facebook] what defines a healthy relationship. I started to make my usual glib response, but what came out wasn't what, even I, was expecting. Sehra: My rules have served me well through 7 very healthy marriages and hundreds of weekend relationships. You asked, so here you are... The measure of a relationship is that it makes both people better than they are alone, that means spiritually, mentally and physically (the triad of self). Together you create a new, positive force that is a source of pride, laughter and peace. You trust your partner to come home to you no matter ...