However long or short it is for you and yours. Don't put off for tomorrow what you should / could do today because you just never know what tomorrow could bring or if it will come at all.
Quite honestly I can't tell if this migraine I have is just a migraine or me losing control of my: 'I'll just put this 'event' on the shelf to deal with later' action falling apart as suddenly too much is happening at the same time and I just can't deal with it all. At first I thought I'd focus on the first thing, then deal with the next thing, but then a friend died last week, and suddenly it was like: 'what do you mean she died? How? What happened?'