uhhhh just like..... send her a message? be like kinda 'hey so im kinda down on your waitlist a ways and i don't want my plush anymore. I know that it says no refunds but?? it's been 2+ years and I??? would like my money back if possible??' or smthn?? idk man i have no idea myself tbh but. i mean. it doesnt hurt to ask fam sometimes things change or exceptions are made so.