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I'm not judging you

:iconkaizenkitty:
KaizenKitty Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Professional Writer
:stare:







I am studying you.






:stare:

...does that sound scarier?



would you rather be judged.... ...or be studied?
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:iconyoureallreadydead:
YoureAllreadyDead Featured By Owner 2 days ago  New Deviant Student Digital Artist
haha! there is nothing to study for I am an enigma my kindly compadre!
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:iconkaizenkitty:
KaizenKitty Featured By Owner 2 days ago  Professional Writer
wouldnt there be more to study with an enigma? like someone who keeps you guessing? someone with layers upon layers? idk a person like that seems like there is a lot to them to learn.... there is a lot to study about you :)
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:iconmichaelfeckinmyers:
MichaelFeckinMyers Featured By Owner 3 days ago
Well then study me then, Sherlock.
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:iconkaizenkitty:
KaizenKitty Featured By Owner 2 days ago  Professional Writer
no thank you
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:iconmichaelfeckinmyers:
MichaelFeckinMyers Featured By Owner 2 days ago
Nah, I'm stronger than a smartass like you.
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:iconkaizenkitty:
KaizenKitty Featured By Owner 2 days ago  Professional Writer
hey, whatever man....
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:iconmichaelfeckinmyers:
MichaelFeckinMyers Featured By Owner 2 days ago
You'd still gaslight me and call me weak when you got the attitude of some smug cunt who I'd fucking eat for breakfast in the collapse of society.
Oh I'm sorry, you're supposed to be stronger because you'd be charismatic enough to get stronger people to defend you? Fuck you, you condescending piece of shit. Your guile will be worth nothing in the collapse of civilization.
I don't care how much you make me look like an idiot and tell me I'm the only one to blame for making me look like an idiot. I've been manipulated like that so much I may as well kill people.
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:iconpainapple-k:
Painapple-k Featured By Owner 3 days ago
Judge 
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:iconzolak-and-honey:
Zolak-and-Honey Featured By Owner 3 days ago  Hobbyist General Artist
Saying that someone is studying you seems scary on the surface. But people see therapists all the time, voluntarily. 

So I'm pretty sure most people would prefer to be studied. Hell they even pay for it. 
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:icontabbypurrfume:
TabbyPurrfume Featured By Owner 4 days ago
Uuh... Sounds kinky.
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:icondqube:
dqube Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I am basically doing human studying to be more socially effective. Is this worse?
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:iconart-dude:
art-dude Featured By Owner 3 days ago  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Developing your persona is a great thing :)
Wish people took more interest in it, rather than satisfying the self, would make the world much easier to navigate through, most people are born into being brick walls nowdays...
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:icondqube:
dqube Featured By Owner 3 days ago  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yeah they are brick walls XD.
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:iconsameoldskorpan:
SameOldSkorpan Featured By Owner 3 days ago
Depends now you define "socially effective". If it's just to play a role, put a mask BETTER, to get along with others better....It's not worth it.

                                             
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:icondqube:
dqube Featured By Owner 3 days ago  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Mask you say, yeah i have a full wardrobe do you want some of my spares?
Socially effective means that you are good in making conversations with other people without being awkward or getting into boring conversations. Doesn't have to be about getting along all the time since that is an impossible task even for me.
I generally don't give enough information about myself to cause a conversation to steer in the "personal achievements" arguments as i call them. But its enough for the other party to know that they don't have something and this will cause an outburst of insults regarding how someone is clothed or false sexual preference insults (calling someone gay even if they are not).
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:iconsameoldskorpan:
SameOldSkorpan Featured By Owner 3 days ago
I don't weak my masks anymore...I just let myself have "moods" you know... Experiencing the world 1st hand, and not through a forever "tensed-up mind"...... is in itself, the very freedom people lack and don't know where to find it.
Just don't push me in a bad mood hihi.
Also, I'm twisted and fked up enough to see "over-sharing" :D self-defense mechanism. :D
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:icondqube:
dqube Featured By Owner 3 days ago  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Cool i wish people stopped sharing all of their life events in a conversation. Seriously i don't want to listen about all of their cheap wins they are so proud of.
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:iconsameoldskorpan:
SameOldSkorpan Featured By Owner 3 days ago
You do you bro...I learned to enjoy listening to idiots. :D
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:icongreedymax:
greedymax Featured By Owner 4 days ago
Study the hell out of me! Do your worst! La la la la 
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:iconphil-n-deblanc:
Phil-N-DeBlanc Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Professional Artist
Madame,,,    the magnifying glass powerful enough to study moi has yet to be developed !!!
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:iconmelianmarionette:
MelianMarionette Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Hobbyist General Artist
As long as I get lots of attention, it's all good! Heart 
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:iconkaizenkitty:
KaizenKitty Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Professional Writer
ok
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:iconmelianmarionette:
MelianMarionette Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Hobbyist General Artist
Yay! :excited:
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:iconart-dude:
art-dude Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Surely judgement should proceed study?
Judgement without study, is just blind ignorance, so if I am to be judged, youd better have studied me!
Or I'll be studying your judgement, and then studying you and judging you according to that initial unsubstantiated judgement of yours :p
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:iconkaizenkitty:
KaizenKitty Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Professional Writer
:thumbsup: yes! :D
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:iconsuzukinagatsuki:
SuzukiNagatsuki Featured By Owner 4 days ago
Kawaii [Gravity Falls]  Aw...OhNeko Emoji-36 (Oh no) [V2] you don't want to do that. Although it might be interesting.
I love scary.
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:iconlemiken7:
Lemiken7 Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Professional General Artist
Well, there's not much to know really. 

It's all rainbows and unicorns (and a bit of exterminating now and again).  
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:iconkaizenkitty:
KaizenKitty Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Professional Writer
*raised eyebrow*
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:iconlemiken7:
Lemiken7 Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Professional General Artist
Not that I'm judging...but do you have a monobrow?
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:iconkaizenkitty:
KaizenKitty Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Professional Writer
yes :D :D :D
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:iconrathaloshunter16:
Rathaloshunter16 Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Doesn´t make difference to me.
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:iconteeyu:
teeyu Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Well, "studying" to me implies that you're at least trying to understand where the other person is coming from.
"judging" just feels like approaching the subject purely from your own point of view so...that seems more annoying. :P
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:iconkaizenkitty:
KaizenKitty Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Professional Writer
yeah.... though it is easier to judge...
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:iconteeyu:
teeyu Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Hobbyist Digital Artist
ofc. takes a lot less brain power :D
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:iconsameoldskorpan:
SameOldSkorpan Featured By Owner 4 days ago
I'd rather be "explored" :>
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:iconkaizenkitty:
KaizenKitty Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Professional Writer
:) we can do that, too
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:iconsameoldskorpan:
SameOldSkorpan Featured By Owner 4 days ago
Better get your hiking bag ready lol
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:iconkaizenkitty:
KaizenKitty Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Professional Writer
:D
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:iconrattyrainbow:
rattyrainbow Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Hobbyist
Judged or studied, I'm going to scare the person either way more so than they would. 
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:iconsameoldskorpan:
SameOldSkorpan Featured By Owner 3 days ago
" I'm going to scare the person either way more so than they would. "
>
If you only knew how many times I heard /read this claim... It's like everyone competes with me in how "Crazy" we are. It makes me giggle inside :D

To then go to the other extreme and act like I wanna ruin their lives because of some misunderstood / misplaced WORDS.

Being like "nobody can study me, and if they can, means it's most likely the END" > Ironically supports / hints at that exact fear.

You'd be less scared of physical pain, or even death...You'd rather escape even if it means the end, rather than having someone wonder through your mind freely , regardless of your consent.

See...being vulnerable is scary for most people.
But we all are , and hiding our weaknesses or try to compensate for them. Making them , and ourselves, less exploitable... Harder to read and manipulate. :D
And losing control over your own mind is grueling thought to even imagine for some.

See...I never met anyone "invulnerable" or "completely fearless"...ESPECIALLY when it comes to their mind, their intimate inner world.
It's like everyone uses psychological intimidation, mental-bluffing,  to save themselves from opening-up. To never admit to any fears or weaknesses, but rather say "I wouldn't go there if I were you, for your own good :D".

So you replying like this, doesn't scare me hihi. Rather makes me wanna try it for myself more. What could be SOOO scary / surprising, about you?
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:iconkaizenkitty:
KaizenKitty Featured By Owner 3 days ago  Professional Writer
;P i only let in the ppl who earn my trust :D
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:iconrattyrainbow:
rattyrainbow Featured By Owner 3 days ago  Hobbyist
Okay cool, it was a joke, sorry you took it literally.
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:iconsameoldskorpan:
SameOldSkorpan Featured By Owner 3 days ago
Ohh you're just into darker humor :D sarcasm. That makes sense. Well it's cool. Just harder to guess the "tone" from text ya know :D
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:iconkaizenkitty:
KaizenKitty Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Professional Writer
possibly depends on the person studying you. :shrug:
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:iconrattyrainbow:
rattyrainbow Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Hobbyist
Well then in that case, I shall applaud them before they murder me.
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:iconkaizenkitty:
KaizenKitty Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Professional Writer
......:stare: ... thats uhh one way to look at it.
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:iconrattyrainbow:
rattyrainbow Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Hobbyist
You gotta look at the bright side of life and death as summarized from the song, Always Look on the Bright Side of Life.
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:iconkaizenkitty:
KaizenKitty Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Professional Writer
XD
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:iconscorbuniis:
Scorbuniis Featured By Owner 4 days ago
A judgement can just be a passing thought while a study can strip me down to my deepest thoughts, eek !
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:iconkaizenkitty:
KaizenKitty Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Professional Writer
right? :D
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